Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
opinions? I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Nicole
@jordyns_mommy88, true. I have a hard time excepting this at times. That most guys are like this! Before my son was born. My mom would tell me. It's going to be hard. The mom does most of the work. The mom is always the one that is up when the baby has its first cry to its last. While the baby daddy is sleeping or doing something else. I always said. Nah this won't be us. But yep it's true. I love my bf but I want to strangle him at times. @meldeladeleon yes man! My son wakes up at 6 and sometimes my bf will wake up too. And he'd be like want to watch a movie with me? And I'm like what!? I have to feed our child! Change him, cook for him and us. Take the dogs out etc. and he always goes oh oh. But doesn't think to fucken help me! It really amazes me sometimes. But like @jordyns_mommy88 says. We chose them and they are guys. I need to work harder in accepting my role as a mother and a women as sad as that sounds.
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