@jordyns_mommy88, true. I have a hard time excepting this at times. That most guys are like this! Before my son was born. My mom would tell me. It's going to be hard. The mom does most of the work. The mom is always the one that is up when the baby has its first cry to its last. While the baby daddy is sleeping or doing something else. I always said. Nah this won't be us. But yep it's true. I love my bf but I want to strangle him at times. @meldeladeleon yes man! My son wakes up at 6 and sometimes my bf will wake up too. And he'd be like want to watch a movie with me? And I'm like what!? I have to feed our child! Change him, cook for him and us. Take the dogs out etc. and he always goes oh oh. But doesn't think to fucken help me! It really amazes me sometimes. But like @jordyns_mommy88 says. We chose them and they are guys. I need to work harder in accepting my role as a mother and a women as sad as that sounds.

Girl sometimes I feel like that. I am a sahm as well, with a 17 month old - and now he's a little wild child. My hubby is sweet but there's when he gets frustrated I don't pay enough attention to him. I'm like uh hello, I've been up since 7am with our child, as soon as my son passes out, I want to pass out.

Yes most guys do all this...but what can we really say we picked them . but I know what your going through

Exactly! Worst part is my bf isn't even working right now!!! He was playing video games for the first time in a long time. And we had to go run errands. He told me "can't I have a day off!". I was about to go nuts! I said "do I get any freaken days off!?!!!!!" I'm a sahm too. And I do all the home stuff as well. Which pisses me of when we go grocery shopping or go out to eat. And I still have to carry my son to the car. Feed him at the restaurant. Look after him. While he just hangs out. It scares me to think this is my partner for life. I hate asking for help because I shouldn't have to. and you shouldn't have to either. They're their freaken kids too! Ugh.

my fiance can frustrate me cuz yes he works and I am a sahm. But I am tired too! And he gets all mad when I dont have stuff done or when he falls asleep at home when we have 2 toddlers. And his excuse is that he works and is tired. I get it, I do but that doesnt mean Im not tired too!!!