So maybe I can help others with this. Being a FTM I was very afraid of going to the ER if it wasn't necessary. After…

atleast 5 so far, it gets scary

I've got twice. Went to labor and delivery once and called the on call doctor once.

once in my first pregnancy, once in my second and so far once now in my third pregnancy but I think I'll be visiting since my doctor scared me with vaginal bleeding and cramping while having RH Negative blood.

@hermommy, yes it definitely does, I feel much better once I go.

@kelseys, I found out I have RH negative blood my first ER trip

@cass_lynne, once I get to even questioning whether I should go, the stress of not knowing is too much so I just go lol

none so far

I call the on call doctor. Saves money and they're really helpful. My doctors office is right at the hospital so it's great

I've always knew I had it but it causes so many problems during pregnancy. with my first, I didn't know I was pregnant till almost 25weeks because I was bleeding every month when I was supposed to have my period, so my doctor said that happened because I have RH- and then this time I got so scared in the hospital because I didn't know that whenever you get vaginal bleeding because were RH- we need to go to the er right away from rhogam shot if not than our blood can mix with the baby's causing the baby to die and possibly ourselves. I didn't know it was that serious

twice in my first pregnancy and about 5 or 6 times this time around

Not a single time, though I have called my doctor once. A lot of things I freaked out about were completely normal, so I just had to convince myself it was all good.

@cass_lynne, that's so nice!!

@kelseys, I know, I've already had to have one shot because of bleeding. It's scary for sure :(

@matthewsmom, nice! Everything that has happened to me decided to happen in the middle of the night 😩

0. but I have called my mom at 2am to ask her what certain symptoms/signs meant. lll

really?! oh no, well I hope everything is fine now. that scares me because I've never had to have it before the 27/28weeks when the doctor gives it to us.

@kelseys, I was bleeding twice, one doctor said to give it to me because I bled. The next time they called my doctor and he said it was too early so I'm sure you're good! I have a subchorionic hemorrhage and they didn't give me another one

ilmommy93, my mom and I stopped talking about 3 months before I found out and I always expected to rely on her when I did get pregnant so I'm just trying to figure it out on my own 😞

@lilmommy93,

awe, I'm sorry to hear that.

It's okay, it'll make me a stronger mom in the end ☺️

@lilmommy93,

I'm 31 weeks and I've been three times just for random reasons. Like weird pains and twinges that I wasn't sure about

Better safe than sorry!

@emkasting, I totally agree!

my first pregnancy I went about 10 times, finally the last time they caught my preclampsia at week 36! I knew I didn't feel right but it took them that many trys to get it. mommies listen to your gut.... I knew something was wrong and took them longer to figure it out.

@wannaboyplz, what are the symptoms for that?

@taylornelson, severely swollen, high BP. protein in urine, dizziness, kidney pain.... those were my symptoms, the kidney pain though brought me in. I was in the hospital for 1 week with a migraine, then left for a week and went back and delivered via emergency c-section. they were rolling their eyes saying nothing was wrong when I went back.... well that was because they had me laying down for over an hour before my BP was taken finally before the last BP before being taken I had to pee and they caught a high BP that was way too high. just sucks they could have caught it sooner and maybe given me something to control it if they would have listened or done their job right. they monitored me that night and told me to lay and rest and remain calm and I could go home, my doctor felt completely different!!! I tried telling them, when I am home I do not have the luxury of laying down 24/7!

@wannaboyplz, oh wow that sounds terrible. I'm so sorry 😖