I can't stand it when some people can't just mind their own business when it comes to women and their pregnancies.…

👏👏 preach my love

It gets me when they say let baby come when they're ready but it's bad if it's at 37,38,or 39 weeks like how!? if that baby was ready it came when it was ready!! so how is it the mothers fault?

like who is someone to go through my posts then message me basically being rude saying I'm gonna do damage to my baby if I do too much walking and my water breaks!? or that if my doctor induces me before 40 weeks it'll do damage? like seriously? if that's the case lemme find those moms whose babies CHOSE to come out before 40 weeks. sometimes I wonder if anyone has ever heard that most babies come 2 weeks early or a week or 2 late 😧 @hermommy

If I had a dollar for every time someone told me I should have done VBAC during my second pregnancy so I could do vaginal birth from then on, I would be filthy rich. Screw them... I can't have a vaginal birth. My body wasn't built like that. I have hip dysplasia. Tell people to move on and do you. You'll know what's right for you.

@aek91, exactly! those women who had their babies from 37 weeks on up. like how do you get mad at the mother for sitting there minding her own. probably doing what their ob's told them to do. like walking or whTever even sitting there doing not shit and their water breaks. or lord forbid a women is so highly dialated at 37 weeks and baby decided "okay. Imma come out now" like... lord. and not all babies come at 40 weeks. shit. my boyfriend's sister's went to 41 weeks. my friend went to 43 weeks! those babies had to be forced to come out. they weren't budging. and let's not forget the women whose bodies just won't do what it should.

@xbbycolletto hell no, whoever it was is obviously very uneducated... Everyone knows walking ONLY works if your body is ready Xay is ready to come just needs a little help. tell her to go buy a cookie and mind her own business.

I've never seen my due date pregnant in the 3 times I've been pregnant & I've never tried anything to induce myself so IDK how I was supposed to stop myself from going into labor like I don't understand? none of my kids were ever in the NICU because they came early on there some people really exaggerate when it comes to that not everyone's body is like theirs not everyone can make it to 40 or 42 weeks doesn't mean the baby will end up in the NICU I mean I know there's those babies that are born too early & do end up in the NICU but what could the woman do about their body not wanting to stay pregnant!?

exactly. he's tried 2 times earlier this week and I just couldn't dialate. I'm lucky I got myself dialated to 1.5 cms yesterday at labor and delivery. at this point I'm doing whatever I can to help my cervix dialate bc it's not doing it all on its own. and I DARE someone to tell me to quit. because I bet they haven't gone to l&d 2 times in a week with real contractions but no dilating. 37 weeks even if I was dealing with the contractions if I don't dilate on my own they cannot induce me. I have to deal, walk, come in and be monitored or wait for my water to break. @hermommy

@xbbycolletto exactly walking should do it but I've heard its speed walking that gets it going which is hard at 21 week so I'm not about to tell your 37 week pregnant butt to speed walk. Just tell them shut up he is ready your body just doesn't know it's time 😩 they can't like soften your cervix

yes! and Ive seen full term babies go into the NICU as well. like the over exaggeration of NICU and 37 weeks and shit. just no. my doctor has never sent a 37 week pregnant woman's baby to a NICU. nor 38, or 39. if a woman's body can't handle it anymore or can't do anymore, it's gonna do what it's gonna do. IDK why people bash that so damn much. and what about c section women who chose it? some states offer that. I had a choice to either have vaginal birth or c section. I chose c section. last I checked most c sections are performed at 37 or 38 Weeks, none of them babies was in a NICU either. people are so misinformed that at 37 weeks your baby Is done developing. all that's left is to pack on fat and their digestive system doesn't start developing until they start to eat for real. whether that's breast milk, formula, baby food what the heck ever. @aek91

@hermommy, I did my walking for the week. my huge Pregnant ass walked 3 hours in the mall yesterday, then 2 hours in Walmart. today I walked 4 miles. I may be tired. but I'm trying to help myself dilate let alone helping myself make it easier FOR delivery

I just have to say, your post made me want a chocolate glazed donut so bad!!

I agree with you I'm getting rude comments and stuff because I'm having a scheduled c- section on Wednesday because my son is transverse and they tried to turn him and can't. @xbbycolletto

wish my doctor would Induce me sooner pft. Even though this is my last week I don't feel like I can make it. 😭😭 Too bad there's no induction for that lol If there was I'd take it in a heartbeat!😋

Yes!!! there's not guarantee that if you go full term your baby will be completely fine! but these ladies wanna make other people feel bad or scare them & stuff like I know I will probably not make it to my due date pregnant this time around & I'm fine with that my body just can't do it. I just ignore all those post, I was gonna post something about it as well but I don't even wanna start cause then Preggie gets on ass & I don't wanna deal with it. just relax & don't listen to them when your body & baby are ready it'll happen I'm sure your baby will be PREFECTLY healthy!

Lmao I just love your posts. You're so real, I need real life friends like you!