My ex doesn't want anything to do with my daughter, so everything I have , I got for her myself. I don't anticipate that he will have anything to do with her later on either. I will just do the best I can for my daughter.
At least you got that. BD haven't offered to buy anything. Everything that I've purchased for my baby girl I did it only with the help of God. Bed, diapers, wipes, clothes, sheets, blankets, carseat, diaper bag and bottles. On top of that he knows I've been placed on bed rest meaning no job for me. Not to mention I won't be having a baby shower because I dont know anyone here in Nashville. Sorry for ranting away but who needs them?
Would it help if you had him actually buy the things the baby needs?? I tell my ex all the time what it is I need for our 2 year old. He currently buying a box of diapers.
no difference,(not that she's a man, but she's the other parent) lol our child's other parent who isn't pregnant doesn't usually see things the way we do when it comes to what our baby needs and doesn't. but then I see where your coming from, diapers are more important than Jordan's.
men don't really always see having diapers/wipes before the baby is born. I know we like to have everything ready and prepared, but reality is, it isn't that important till the baby is actually here. Just my opinion tho, I know you probably want to be prepared and have different expectations than me.