I'm completely numb, I can't believe my husband told me that he is in love with another woman. But, he said she doesn't feel the same way he does. She is living her own life. He tried to make me think we were getting a divorce due to me being to dominate or not sexually please to him in bed. Both things we could have worked on. I told him I was done because I don't trust him. Because he keeps running back to that girl. Then he dropped that massive bomb shell. I wish he would just let me alone. The kicker is I'm pregnant with twins.
@39surp, he's in another state and I'm the military
Are you going to BF? If you are it's not likely he will get them overnight for a while. I'm sorry if that sounds shallow. I just know I was Breastfeeding my Son at the time when my ex wanted to do the same.
I have copies of their text messages. He didn't text me that he is in love with her. He said it over the phone. But, he filed for divorce so I have a copy of that.
yes i agree with post above save anything he tells u especially about the other woman it will come in handy for sure
He will never get custody. If you aren't doing anything wrong and your handling your business as a mom. He probably will only get them on weekends. Also save messages and anything that says he left because he was in love with someone else. Just any type of dirt you can get.
@iheartyvettee, Thank you I'm so numb it's not even funny. Now I have to worry about him trying to get custody of the kids. He told me he only wants custody of 1. I refuse to separate my children or let him get more custody then me. My pregnancy has been tough.
Omg! This just made me almost cry. They always think the grass is greener on the other side. Water your own grass first and watch it grow into something beautiful. I'm sorry this is happening to you!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Sounds awful. I going through that too