Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Rant. I have a co worker (male) who is a little on the weird side, I used to speak to him normally, until two of my co workers told me that he would always ask for me whenever I was not working.. this completely creeped me out, so now I keep my conversations short/ distant .. he asked me once while we were both in the brake room why I was acting uncomfortable around him, but when he asked me this he said it with a creep smile as if he would find pleasure if I responded with "yes I'm uncomfortable" I told him I didnt know what he was talking about.. he asked me again on Friday if I felt uncomfortable around him.. and I told him I like my space (every time he would ask me something he would get extra close, and I back up about 3-6 inches away from him) he took my response through one ear and out the other because he later wrote me an email, that again. Creeped me out and was completely unnecessary. I'm at the point where I don't even want to work at my office because I'm done.
So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the third time that we’ve gotten called in there to get him because he’s supposedly doing something we’ve never seen or heard of him doing. When I went in there, the girl was holding him, he was in tears and so happy to see me and wanted me to pick him up. I told her I wanted to see him doing what he was supposedly doing. He went on to play with a toy nicely so I told him to come to me, picked him up and signed him out. While my man was still working out, I walked straight up to the general manager and told him I wanted to speak with him in his office. We reviewed the cameras together and my son was IN FACT not doing anything wrong but playing and she grabbed him by his arm for NO REASON and slammed him on the ground and he was on the ground for a good minute before getting back up. Right then and there was when we were called to come get him because he was supposedly throwing heavy toys at kids (which he never does). The manager apologized and then told us he would talk to her... what should we do?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Creeped out! A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped out and grossed out. Ugh. What would you do in this situation? I've reported this to my manager.
Dawn Weiss Craig Green·
Мама троих детей
Sounds awful. I going through that too
Shaneque Clark·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@39surp, he's in another state and I'm the military
liz·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Are you going to BF? If you are it's not likely he will get them overnight for a while. I'm sorry if that sounds shallow. I just know I was Breastfeeding my Son at the time when my ex wanted to do the same.
Shaneque Clark·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I have copies of their text messages. He didn't text me that he is in love with her. He said it over the phone. But, he filed for divorce so I have a copy of that.
claudia·
yes i agree with post above save anything he tells u especially about the other woman it will come in handy for sure
Toni levy·
В ожидании первенца
He will never get custody. If you aren't doing anything wrong and your handling your business as a mom. He probably will only get them on weekends. Also save messages and anything that says he left because he was in love with someone else. Just any type of dirt you can get.
Shaneque Clark·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@iheartyvettee, Thank you I'm so numb it's not even funny. Now I have to worry about him trying to get custody of the kids. He told me he only wants custody of 1. I refuse to separate my children or let him get more custody then me. My pregnancy has been tough.
Toni levy·
В ожидании первенца
Omg! This just made me almost cry. They always think the grass is greener on the other side. Water your own grass first and watch it grow into something beautiful. I'm sorry this is happening to you!