I'm completely numb, I can't believe my husband told me that he is in love with another woman. But, he said she doesn't feel the same way he does. She is living her own life. He tried to make me think we were getting a divorce due to me being to dominate or not sexually please to him in bed. Both things we could have worked on. I told him I was done because I don't trust him. Because he keeps running back to that girl. Then he dropped that massive bomb shell. I wish he would just let me alone. The kicker is I'm pregnant with twins.
@39surp, he's in another state and I'm the military
Are you going to BF? If you are it's not likely he will get them overnight for a while. I'm sorry if that sounds shallow. I just know I was Breastfeeding my Son at the time when my ex wanted to do the same.
I have copies of their text messages. He didn't text me that he is in love with her. He said it over the phone. But, he filed for divorce so I have a copy of that.
yes i agree with post above save anything he tells u especially about the other woman it will come in handy for sure
He will never get custody. If you aren't doing anything wrong and your handling your business as a mom. He probably will only get them on weekends. Also save messages and anything that says he left because he was in love with someone else. Just any type of dirt you can get.
@iheartyvettee, Thank you I'm so numb it's not even funny. Now I have to worry about him trying to get custody of the kids. He told me he only wants custody of 1. I refuse to separate my children or let him get more custody then me. My pregnancy has been tough.
Omg! This just made me almost cry. They always think the grass is greener on the other side. Water your own grass first and watch it grow into something beautiful. I'm sorry this is happening to you!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...
Rant. I have a co worker (male) who is a little on the weird side, I used to speak to him normally, until two of my co workers told me that he would always ask for me whenever I was not working.. this completely creeped me out, so now I keep my conversations short/ distant .. he asked me once while we were both in the brake room why I was acting uncomfortable around him, but when he asked me this he said it with a creep smile as if he would find pleasure if I responded with "yes I'm uncomfortabl...
So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the third time that we’ve gotten called in there to get him because he’s supposedly doing something we’ve never seen or heard of him doing. When I went in there, the girl was holding him, he was in tears and so happy to see me and wanted me to pick him up. I told her I wanted to see him doing what he was supposedly doing. He went on to play with a toy nicely so I told him to come to...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Sounds awful. I going through that too