I'm never the one to vent on here but, I just think it's funny how you have all these so called "friends" before you're pregnant then during pregnancy they are so excited and saying how much they will love you're son and this and that but then baby is born and my "BEST FRIENDS" don't even hit me up anymore one of them met him once at the hospital and that's it and the other hasn't taken the time to meet him at all . sadd and I didn't want what everyone would tell me to be true which was that everybody changes with you once you have a baby .. and it's THETRUTHHHH! IT'S JUST ME AND MY SON.
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exactly , it's like I've gone threw so much these last 2 weeks that I gave birth and I legit haven't got a text to see how me and my baby are doing so I ain't gonna beg them ... I'm not the one to be running around begging ppl to be my friend lol bye with that shit lol @mama_tj
It is very annoying! You will adjust! You just gotta think that even though they may have good intentions on wanting to visit you and baby. It is a completely different life style to them. They probably won't know what to talk about with you how to be with the baby, it can be overwhelming. Even though they care about you. They Don't know what you are going through and how much it'll mean to you if they visited your son. Sometimes it takes time. They might come around. I agree with you I use to party all the time go to the club and once I became a mom that is all I did. Is be a mom. I'm not gonna lie my sister lives with me she just turned 21 so she goes out all the time. Her friends come over they get all ready bump music and pre game. While I'm getting ready to put baby to sleep. I want to have fun to damn it! Lol but the more you think about it. The sadder you become and start resenting people. I can't be upset at my sister for never inviting me out. We live two different life's now. The day will come when you will have fun again. The day will come when your friends have babies and will want to talk to you for advice. It'll all fall into place for you :)
Yeah, it's true I just feel like it happened so fast and honestly I'm the same as of now it's just my family who is here for me and I'm ok with it too I guess I'm just pissed off that they plan on coming to visit my son and end up not showing up and not even let me know they can't make it. it's annoying @nicoli_e1
that's exactly how I feel , I was always the party girl , drinker , etc but I had to change one day especially if it involves my son. I never in my life thought I would be these long being sober but I have been able to maintain sober after giving birth and if that's why they don't want to talk to me then that's on them
It's true people have separate lives. They are on a different level then you are. When I had my son. I didn't hangout with anyone but my little family and I'm ok with that. I'm not one that cares to have friends. But soon enough I did make mommy friends. Now those are the only friends I can have because they don't get tired of hearing stories about my son. Because they can relate. Your crowd changes. And sometimes it sucks. You lose some and you win some. Some are worth losing:) you become smarter and wiser. And you will get tired of hearing about your friends single baby less life. Trust me.
Yup me too where are all my friends Puff they're gone
lmfao foreal , bye felica.its crazy how I have ppl who understand me more on this app then my own so called friends. lol makes me feel better to vent on here. @mama_tj