Yea we would like to try to work opposite schedules so that little one wouldn't have to go in day care I just don't know how well that will work out, if I could even find a job that would work with me on that, we will definitely try though! thanks for the advice. it's hard though to feel like your not doing good enough! @workingmom55

Is it possible to work on an opposite schedule from your man so the baby won't have to go to daycare and will always be with a parent? Also, most daycares won't take newborns until they are 6 weeks, so look into that when you are picking one. As for having enough time, just cherish the time you do have. That's the best advice I can give. Most families have to have 2 incomes to survive, so don't feel like either of you are failing.