Vent😒😔
I am due the 28th of this month but I don't think I'll make it till then. I am currently living at home with my mom because I am still 17, but I am planning to move in with my boyfriend the 19th since I will be 18 by then(my birthday is the 15th). My mom didn't take the news too well of me being pregnant but has came around,she even planned me a baby shower for this Saturday. I just told her I was leaving the 19th & she took the news really well, but said that if my boyfriends family is there when I give birth she will not be there. Even tho we don't have the best relationship it still hurts me that she doesn't want to be there :( idk if I should just let her do what she wants or tell her how I feel because I don't think it will change things 😔
You're so brave! I got married really young and I think your mom is probably feeling a lot of what mine did in that she is losing her baby and really just doesn't want to share you yet. It's hard right now but perfectly understandable. I think the best thing is to tell her that you really do want her there and to be a part of your child's life. Help her to know that you are still her daughter and will always be her baby you just have to spread your wings a little in order to help your baby. Good luck!
@mjmommy, thank you so much💙 I know I let her down & we've never had a good relationship but i want her there because she is my mother I really hope she comes around😔
don't worry @cast_16 trust me when I say..she will be there..even tho she said she wouldn't..when the day comes she'll be excited and worried for u that anything and everyone else won't matter to her..I was a teen Mom as well back in 2004 and I know how hard it can be..Best of luck to u..Love and Blessings sent ur way❤
@cast_16, yup! i'll be 29😒 but i'm not even sad about my age cuz we find out the gender that day😊..it doesn't hurt to talk to her. again if she chooses not to be there that's on her. i bet afterward she feel sad she missed out
@rmnavarro, no way really?😌 I'll try but I don't even know if it's going to be worth it :\
@cast_16, my birthday is the 15th also! just talk to her and see if you can compromise? if she won't change her mind that is not your fault. it will hurt you when she isn't there but it's her choice and her loss that she wont be there for the birth of her grandchild.
@asouthyy, thank you💕 I know she is hurt because I am her only daughter & I want her involved in mine & my child's life,thanks for the advice💖