I think as soon as my baby gets here I'm gonna delete this app or not get on because I want to learn on my own and figure out what works for me not for everyone else you know? like while I'm at the hospital I'm not gonna let anyone hardly up because I want me and my husband to figure out how to do it and than if we need help we ask for it not for someone to just give it to us. idk I'm weird but I take what people say about me to heart and if someone said I was a bad mom for something I'd belive them 100% I know I need to get over that because as a mother no matter the age someone is always gonna say your doing something wrong. I guess when that time comes to me delivering I'll figure it out if I want people around the first few days.
im same way as you. it was so hard to tell my mother and family no and that they are wrong about feeding my baby anything other than breastmilk. i wish you luck its hard but you decide things now your the mom.