Hey mama's can I have your attention please?!
Everyone I know tells me that being a stay at home mom is not a job, because I'm not making money while I'm home but I'm up early cleaning, changing diapers doing laundry, buying groceries with my (link card)
making breakfast/dinner us mama's don't get vacations! and when my spouse comes home from a long day of work he relaxes, BUT I'm constantly on the job (24/7) So is being a parent a job, yes or no?
Thanks for all the ❤ guys! I think I'm in shock! Labor story in a bit I'm being attacked with visitors lol
Me being 19 don't make me no little girl I have my own house a good paying job and soon getting married I graduated with flying colors and very independent. I am GROWN stop making statuses and restricting comments, as far as I know you're a little girl by your actions. I tried to be helpful but you took it the wrong way I don't do online beef child so make all the statuses u want I'm done 😊
Being as tho I'm pregnant do you think I should stay home during my boyfriends birthday party ? It'll be drinking and partying and I'm jus big and it'll prolly make me uncomfortable . What would you do ?? Let him have fun without you or jus be pregnant at a party ?
I work night shift, 6pm till 2am or later. My boyfriend works days, so he's gone when the kids get up. That puts me getting up early with the kids. I'm so over tired there are days that I can't function. I'm thinking about quitting. Letting my boyfriend go back to working 2 jobs (he likes it better that way). But that puts him not being home at all and me being home all the time. But he'll be happier and I'll have more sleep. I'm just not sure what to do. There's down sides with either choice.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
emily·
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@greysonsmommy22, same! And I don't want to work specifically so I can make money to pay for day care, because it is SO outrageously expensive, especially for a reputable place. It just doesn't make sense that I would work enough just to pay for childcare when I would rather be my own childcare haha
Elizabeth·
@emkasting, my Mom was a stay at home Mom when I was little, me and my sister's have good/bad memories with her, I admire stay at home mom's because not only do they work their asses off, daily but also giving the children a good childhood. I'm over protective of my baby an bad thoughts run through my head whrn thinking about letting someone watch him that isn't me or his daddy..
emily·
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What annoys me terribly is that my bf's mother calls stay at home moms "brownie bakers" and says they are useless and don't do anything blah blah. Her whole life has been about work and although I admire the work ethic my boy says none of his childhood memories contain good thoughts of her, only bad ones because she was always working or always yelling about always working.
emily·
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YES it is a job. I want to be a stay at home mom with my baby, he's due May 14. My mom was a stay at home mom and my childhood was amazing because of HER. She worked so hard to give my sister and I everything while my dad was always out of town working to provide financially. My bf says he wants more than anything for me to be able to stay home and he said he's willing to do anything to make that happen
Amanda·
Мама дочки-младенца
Heck yeah it's a job! Look up how much we'd get paid if we did get paid for it. It's like 110,000 a year. Too bad we didn't get paid for it but my girls love is enough pay ❤️
Brianna·
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Yes. My husband knows when I'm a stay at home mom for our twins it will be my "job" he already supports me and knows when I need help he'll be there to help when he off work. It's something you really have to discuss with your so and make sure he understands. My husband and I have been talkin. About it since he decided he wanted me to be a stay at home mom
Jenna Welch·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (35 нед.)
of course it is!
Katherine Contreras·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
It's definitely a full time job.
missing517user·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Hell yes it is!! Girl don't worry about what people are saying. You know what you have to do everyday. And if they are not feeding your kids or paying your bills them and their opinions are irrelevant! 😊
Jenni·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yes it is, people always have something to say but without us they would be shit less
danni·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
YES!!!! only without pay and benefits!