No your not being selfish n it's not abt not trusting him it's abt setting boundaries. N there is no reason she should be calling. There was this girl that used to txt him to just talk. N I was like it's okay to say hey how are u but y'all don't need to be talking like that. Bc women are sneaky I cut all men from my life so I felt he should do the same. N I don't never talk to them. Lol

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I told him when we got married that if it didn't stop our marriage was never goin to work and he told her that if it was not about there kids she should not be calling it too a minute before she got the picture but she got it and it's much better now . I hope that your problem gets better hunny.

@bellahali, @hamman13 @jessicarose0602 @little486 @mommytobe0818 @mommytobe0818 @mommytobesari @vaniestroud I really thought it was just me that is in this situation. I thought I was being selfish and rude. I thought o was alone in this field...... thank you so much everyone. it makes me mad and sad for awhile. like days.... I keep thinking why are women like this. do they know that it affects us. they could careless

@mommytobe0818, that's terrible. sorry to hear that. what do you do

The only reason why she would still be calling is because he's answering her I think you need to take it up with him . She's not the problem he is sorry to say it this way but it true . I had the same problem with my husband baby mother she would call late night for random shit as soon as he stop answering her she stop the bullshit.

No problem girl, us women need to stick together!

I can't be a hypocrite though. My bf does have a friend that he dated when he was 16, but they never had sex so when they talk it doesn't bother me. If they have has sex, they shouldn't be "friends."

@mommytobesari, that's what I always said.... they got off good or whatever ugh. thank you very.much for helping me

If they used to go out, there is absolutely no reason they should be friends. That's disrespectful in my opinion. If she doesn't know any better than to not call a married man, your husband should either tell her to stop or just stop answering. Why doesn't her man help her out? I would not tolerate that. My bf has girl friends that he has had since middle school and they all have respect, if any woman ever stepped to him he would tell them the deal. You're not wrong for feeling the way you do.

@babytj0214 I was upset like you about my bfs ex trying to call and message but I let it be. It's frustrating but if I trust my man then all should be good. She can continue trying to call knowing I'm the one who has him and she don't have a chance. My bf stopped replying back to her after I quit showing it bothered me.

@bellahali, @hamman13 @little486 @vaniestroud @jessicarose0602 thanks ladies..... you girls calmed me down..... this helped alot.... love it you ladies answered back..... thank you so much..... means alot

@vaniestroud, no point cuz like he said they are only friends and that's it.... and no need to be jealous cuz it's stupid of me to feel that way when there is no need to..... ugh

@little486, all the time. he always say not to worry cuz he married me and it will never work and blah blah and who gives a crap... if she likes him.

.. he doesn't and never loved her and blah blah.... but ugh.... I hate being the jealous wife but we know who's good and who to watch for.... we are not idiots

your husband should let her know the deal !!!

my boyfriend had an ex who messaged him on facebook a few months ago. he didn't respond and she left him alone after that. my ex also tried that with me by messaging me on Facebook but he was more persistent and also kept hacking into my Facebook account and email. I ignored him as well. I'm sorry you are going through this though.

@babytj0214 does your husband know how you feel about her calling?

@bellahali, she doesn't get it and she doesn't know it makes me so mad. I talk to my husband already about her and he keeps repeating I married you and it will never work out that's why I'm not with her blah blah..... hate women that can't freaking move on

@hamman13, I'm sorry I do not get what you are trying to say

@little486, I hate it. I know my husband loves me but he never calls she.... she always calls every fnnnnn year.... once or twice

I would answer n tell her abt her self

Ew she needs to back off

hate that shit.... they are friends. ... good friends whatever.... but get over it. she has a bf and moved in and everything but she can never go a year without calling my husband

sound like a stalker ex. my bf has a stalker ex that till this day, over a year, she still tries to get a hold of him on Facebook and messenger.