is so frustrating being at the hospital trying to feed my baby, I have nurses with sticks up their asses, and a boyfriend who thinks he's the dam "dr.".....
then when I get upset with him he wants to tell me I'm acting crazy😡
I'm sorry but last I checked he's never breast fed someone nor has he been thrift child birth as many times as I have......
RobbieМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
Sorry, I was in the shower trying to ease my pain level. lol
EricaМама четверых детей
I know, is so bad he hasn't let me eat one of my meals in peace I've been having to order double everything just so I can eat because he's so dam greedy hell easy my food and not even think twice @ilyric
RobbieМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
stress also leads to poor nursing. :( have baby checked for lip and tongue ties to!
EricaМама четверых детей
thanks @ilyric because I'm trying so hard not to just cuss him out or start balling....
I'm so over this atleast at home I have control over my household
RobbieМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
Just tell him he's adding more stress than needed and there is a door he can leave through if he wants to continue. it's a new experience that takes time to learn the right technique for you both.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Love doesn't have age I'm 19 & my fiance is 33 my family is good with that because he's a grown man & responsible comes home from work and I'm pregnant this is our first baby & he's supper excited cuz he always wanted a kid by the right woman... we live together in our new house he's just a great hard working guy.... I'm pretty sure if i were to be dating an 19 year old man he wouldn't be responsible matter of fact he would be out with his friends drinking doing whatever & this is why i choose wisely..... Ladies how old are you & your spouse?
so I'm being induced so he will be here next week. he's measuring smaller . I'm 37 weeks but he's measuring 35 weeks . 😔 I'm not ready for him yet . he doesn't even have his bed yet. so that means he's going to be a preemie , I hope he doesn't stay in the nicu. on top of all that went on today smh. you know he had the nerve to call me a failure ? pssh.
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
Erica·Мама четверых детей
it's ok, thanks for all the help and advice @ilyric
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