Good morning mommies I need some advice. So I've been trying to figure out baby names but I'm at a stand still because I can't decide if I want to use my last name or my child's father last name. He really hasn't been any help or has been here so far throughout the pregnancy and we recently broke up. I mean no doctors visits, he wasn't there when I told my family, and he rarely checks or asks how things are going after appts. He claims that he already loves our child but I really don't see it or believe it and I have a deep feeling he's not going to really be around when I have the baby either. I'm not trying to keep him away from my child. I just don't know if I should prepare for the worst.
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The way I see it... Kids only get their father's last name if you got his too. I'm in same situation. Best believe my son getting my last name. How we gotta do all the work but my son gets his father last name n he didn't do anything but get me pregnant 🙄
Do you want to name your kid after someone who doesn't deserve it? I have no regrets with my first son having my last name. Ultimately it's up to you, but it's my personal belief if a "man" doesn't step up, then he doesn't deserve to have a kid have his last name.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
can I give my child any last name I want?
@itsdestyn, @kimberlyyyy when you guys put it like that I couldn't agree more. Thank you so much