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Good morning mommies I need some advice. So I've been trying to figure out baby names but I'm at a stand still because I…

Good morning mommies I need some advice. So I've been trying to figure out baby names but I'm at a stand still because I can't decide if I want to use my last name or my child's father last name. He really hasn't been any help or has been here so far throughout the pregnancy and we recently broke up. I mean no doctors visits, he wasn't there when I told my family, and he rarely checks or asks how things are going after appts. He claims that he already loves our child but I really don't see it or believe it and I have a deep feeling he's not going to really be around when I have the baby either. I'm not trying to keep him away from my child. I just don't know if I should prepare for the worst.

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly

Do you want to name your kid after someone who doesn't deserve it? I have no regrets with my first son having my last name. Ultimately it's up to you, but it's my personal belief if a "man" doesn't step up, then he doesn't deserve to have a kid have his last name.

itsdestyn

Destyn

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The way I see it... Kids only get their father's last name if you got his too. I'm in same situation. Best believe my son getting my last name. How we gotta do all the work but my son gets his father last name n he didn't do anything but get me pregnant 🙄

shae143

shae143

@itsdestyn, @kimberlyyyy when you guys put it like that I couldn't agree more. Thank you so much

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?