I'm trying so hard to do this whole breastfeeding thing but it's so hard when your baby is in the NICU and you can't get down to the hospital whenever you want. Plus I don't even think that my milk has come in fully! I don't know if I'm going to be able to do it 😢. I so badly want to but I feel as though it's just not going to work.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Christmas decorations? When do you usually take it all down? I don't want to. It's been a battle with babe and the tree. But I love it lol
SAHM do you feel guilty -I do ? Do you ever feel guilty that your so/dh go out work hard and you get to stay home?
Locking your doors We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына-младенца
Don't give up girl! I can't imagine how hard it probably is, but if you have a pump I'd definitely pump as much as possible if you can & atleast baby will have that until you have them home where you can breastfeed easier.
Jill·
Мама дочки-младенца
Thanks girl! yes I have a pump but when I pump hardly anything even comes out its super discouraging. people keep telling me the more I pump the more milk will eventually come its just so hard. I'm trying like crazy to pump more but when your putting so much effort into it and hardly getting anything out its such a let down! @babyjjsmommy
Holly·
Мама подростка, беременна (36 нед.)
Just remember baby has a tiny tummy right now! Just keep pumping what you can and trust your body to catch up with baby. Breast feeding is one of the hardest things women can do, just remember that and know that you can do it!