I really think it's a man thing, I was really upset for a long time thinking that I got the one guy who makes me do all the work, but this app helped me realize that men are borderline worthless when it comes to taking care of baby.... honestly, though, I got attitude one time when I asked for help and I responded with "if the only way you help me is by bringing home a paycheck, you can start paying child support and leave" he was so butthurt omg. I was just so tired and grumpy that it slipped lol!!

I know, I thought the same but I eventually ley her help because I was getting so depressed and cried ever time babe started crying... he should be happy and willing to help with his child. it could also be a jealousy thing though, for some reason lots of guys get jealous when babe gets all the attention. I hope he steps up and quits playing games, his child needs him and he needs to realize that. I'm sorry dear..

I shouldn't have to tell him.. and it shouldn't be my mom helping out with baby if he's here too.. even though I love my mom's help.. she shouldn't have to do it.. he needs to man up... we've only been married 5 1/2 months.. I shouldn't be this unhappy. and tbh I think the unhappiness started before the hospital. @hhmariah

He's a new daddy, he'll eventually come around.... hopefully... Put your foot down and tell him he needs to step up, not ask him. You need his help the most right now and he needs to realize that.... if he doesn't, do you have another family member to help out so you can relax and have a little time? My hubby was the same way, my mom came over and helped with babe while I took a nap, cleaned, showered or just wanted to relax.