I'm really trying to be happy.. but I haven't been happy since I came home from the hospital.. and that's not a good thing. I love my son to death.. more than I could ever imagine.. but my husband is not doing anything to help me.. not help take care of Omari.. and not helping me get out of whatever funk I'm in.. he's basically causing this unhappiness.
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I know, I thought the same but I eventually ley her help because I was getting so depressed and cried ever time babe started crying... he should be happy and willing to help with his child. it could also be a jealousy thing though, for some reason lots of guys get jealous when babe gets all the attention. I hope he steps up and quits playing games, his child needs him and he needs to realize that. I'm sorry dear..
I shouldn't have to tell him.. and it shouldn't be my mom helping out with baby if he's here too.. even though I love my mom's help.. she shouldn't have to do it.. he needs to man up... we've only been married 5 1/2 months.. I shouldn't be this unhappy. and tbh I think the unhappiness started before the hospital. @hhmariah
He's a new daddy, he'll eventually come around.... hopefully... Put your foot down and tell him he needs to step up, not ask him. You need his help the most right now and he needs to realize that.... if he doesn't, do you have another family member to help out so you can relax and have a little time? My hubby was the same way, my mom came over and helped with babe while I took a nap, cleaned, showered or just wanted to relax.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
Please help!
My doctor is trying to induce me before 40 weeks because she's going to be off on my due date and says my placenta is starting to look old. How do I get labor started?? I don't want to be induced for no reason and I'm thinking I won't have a choice. Please help. What do I do to get things going?
My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
I am FREAKING out. I told my therapist I smoke marijuana to help with morning sickness, and she reported me to her supervisor. They referred me to their drug clinic on the 11th, and I'm so nervous because when they drug test me and if it's positive, I already have an ACS case and they will report me to my worker. My friend suggested Niacin, 500mg twice a day for two weeks, but I'm nervous if it's safe for the baby. I'm going to drink a gallon of water a day and try to ingest vinegar....ladies I'...
I really think it's a man thing, I was really upset for a long time thinking that I got the one guy who makes me do all the work, but this app helped me realize that men are borderline worthless when it comes to taking care of baby.... honestly, though, I got attitude one time when I asked for help and I responded with "if the only way you help me is by bringing home a paycheck, you can start paying child support and leave" he was so butthurt omg. I was just so tired and grumpy that it slipped lol!!