i go to chici n they wont see me till im 4 months

Yes it's normal to loose weight in your first trimester. But I would talk to your doc if you aren't keeping anything at all down

i was 179. now im 173 i cant eat really

Yes, same is happening to me. Thankfully it's getting better though. I weigh 122 now. I was 137 my first appointment the beginning of February