yeah that is a good way to look at it @expectingz

@ash_505, ppl brag bc they do have kids, no difference, your just in a different place where your having one apposed to not. When I was 30 with no kids I was looked as "what's wrong with you", so it's an accomplishment to some ppl, just like having a degree, or being on a job longer than 2 years, being married etc. I don't thinks it's a knock, just something they feel accomplished about.

right i mean its a personal choice when u have kids but i hate when people post bragging cuz they dont have kids like is such a bad thing.. any age is fine to have kids, it depends on the circumstances.. @domena84 @expectingz

Amen to that. I am 24 pregnant with number 2 had my first a month before turning 20. I am married with a good job and both of my parents started having kids in there twenties and my dad has a 2 year old and my mom a 6 year old. My siblings are young enough to be my kids. Happily a 90s baby with babies. :)

agreed @domena84

Well I'm 33, and having my first, by the time I'm 50 my child will be close to graduating high school. I still feel and look great for being 33 too. I was the opposite, ppl looked down on me or in shock bc I didn't have kids in my 20s, so it depends on your environment. Oan I wanted to be done with kids by 30, but plans and goals change with life. I'm more stable now then in my 20s.

but I agree so ppl here are very rude and they think they know everything best, and it piss me of when they are posting that kind of stuff

I don't think it's about age, it's about if you are ready and your priorities, I personally know parent in their teens, 20s, 30s and 40s and in every age group there are good parents and not so good.

I think people still think the 90s were closer than they are lol @ash_505

right, its like oh sorry Im over partying and decided to be a parent now.. ive had my fun in college, its over and time to grow up! @kparis

yeah, ill be 23 in may, what the hell is so wrong that that.. I dont see an issue.. I have a bachelor's degree, and ive been in a relationship for 3 years straight. I think ive got my shit together more than the kid I saw who posted it.. @skylersmommy416

Seriously, I hate how people make being a parent seem like a bad thing.

i feel the same way. i was born in 1992 ill be 23 when my son is born i want to be able to play with him and not be to old when he is going to college