I'm not encouraging teen pregnancy. Yeah you should wait until you're ready. But what really fucking gets to me is when other young people & old too look at you with judgment or idk what it is but they just give you this look that says wtf where you thinking or probably calling me hoe or other shit. Well let me tell you this yes I'm 19 years old with my first baby, I'm fucking married and if my husband is not with me right now it's because his working his ass off for me and our kid. We have a house and a fucking car so stop judging. Yes I know I'm young, God sends us little angles for a reason and congrats that your 17 18 19 or whatever with no baby. Guess what I lOVEEEE being a mommy!!!
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I know how it is while in high school had my first son four months after turning 16 and now I'm 18 pregnant with my second son. I still get looks and get stared at all the time for it.
I know exactly where you coming from I was 15 when I had my first baby. she was well taken care of I did what I had to do, people looked at me every day in judge me. im now 26 married working on my second baby. got my nursing degree when I was 22. make a long story short people will always judge you. if u doing good or bad . all u can do is be the best mother to your bundle of joy cuz God makes no mistakes when He bless us with the gift.
I'm 19 too. age does not always determine what kind of mother you're going to become and people don't understand that. Plus if a baby is a 25 year olds blessing why cant he be mine too? He isn't holding me back from anything, he isn't a burden, or a mistake. He's my everything, my motivator and a beautiful gift that was presented to me. Only thing to shut these people up is continue doing an amazing job!!
this is so true!! I still get judged for having a kid and I'm 24 I just found out this lady me and my hubby know was talking shit about us to my hubby's best friends mom saying I ruined my husband's life and how we are too young to have a kid and her daughter is 18 with a baby and I would never judge her daughter. no matter how old you are ppl will still judge you cause they think they are perfect.
I'm 24 and look about 17 (from what people suggest). my husband and I get the most disgusting looks all the time. especially now having a 18 MO old and me being 26 weeks. I get so sick of it.. like wtf is it to you how old I am? and I know good and well that's the reason we get nasty looks.