My sister in law really is a bitch I try to like her, reason with her but I can't everything she…
My sister in law really is a bitch I try to like her, reason with her but I can't everything she does is always like a competition, she's the best baker she's the best at everything she's the apple of her mums eye... Does anyone know of anyone else like this...? She was disappointed that we couldnt see her when we told her we had antenatal appointment that day... It's not our fault that we have to check up on our babies health, how selfish can you possibly get !
Can't do anything wrong yet won't even speak to me had her back turned to me the whole time I was being nice to her ... Another thing that is really starting to piss me off... Is how my mum in law Keeps on buying blue boy stuff ... Because she thinks I'll have a boy and bekky well she will have a girl.. It all started when we were out shopping and my mum in law said well one of yous is bound to have a girl and then bekky said 'yeah me' what if the baby I'm carrying is in fact a little girl I'm not putting her in blue or mickey the mouse... I've had enough of the competition front why can't bekky or Ricks mum just ask how the baby is doing why is it me that always has to ask how their life is going... Another thing that pisses me off is when
ricks mum says oh yeah I put your wedding photo up, guess who is in it oh there is Bekky, Ricks Dad, Aron, bekkys husband and my husband Rick oh yeah and where is the bride? Not included, not even in her own wedding photo how lovely is that? Not to sound funny but they spent the whole day taking photos of bekky and of themselves and none of the bride and
groom just a tad odd. Even my family picked up on this? If they do not like me fair enough but seriously I don't deserve to be treated like this. I havent been anything but nice to them. When not to sound funny or anything Rick had no money not even a single penny to his name I used my savings to buy us a house ... And a future I even bought the whole wedding and had no help at all.. Because sadly my parents died and I sort of think to myself I moved all the way from my home from the people that love me all so it be easier for Rick and I think to myself I shouldnt have moved here ... Sorry rant over but it needed to come out! I asked Rick about moving in a few years and he agrees x
EmmaJo·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
Tbh, I'd stop giving them updates on your baby.. If they can't show an interest then don't force it. You've tried and there's only so much trying you can do until you give up. Just focus on you, your husband and this baby.. Forget the negativity this Bekky seems to try and put your way. She will soon realise she can't be a princess her whole life! Xx
Rebecca·
Thank you yeah I might stop with the updates, I mean Rick had to ask his mum if she wanted another scan we have yet to see the first one on the wall... I just think if that was my parents they'd be asking when the baby is due when my next appointment is.. Asking if they could have a scan and not needing to be asked by their son. They don't seem interested.
Rebecca·
I don't think we will give her a second one, I'm not trying to be rude but doesn't seem like she was all too bothered about the first one and it seems like a waste of money for us for her. At least we cherish ours and hang it one the wall. I really don't care about Bekky she will soon realise that she can't have all her way and she's not good at everything
jody·
Мама двоих (1 год, 1 год), ждёт третьего
@tinytinylittleone, my moto is treat people how treated put you your baby and husband first xx
mummywarwick·
My sister in law can be the same, in fact often she's a massive cow. Im always nice to her which can be hard, she sounds insecure which isn't your fault, if they don't ask for the information, don't offer it. Be as nice as you can without being fake and be the bigger person. Talking with her back to you is super rude, I Googled 'my sister in law is horrible to me what can I do?' found some pretty good advice (if in doubt Google it, and advise more practical than some of the things my sisters said I should do, lol) But chin up lovely and there's nothing wrong with letting out steam x @tinytinylittleone x
mummywarwick·
@tinytinylittleone, however often the things she does when she deliberately doesn't involve me often end up going tits up anyway, hubs often laughs and says it's karma. I try not to feel too smug bur I'm only human! lol! xXx
Rebecca·
Sometimes I honestly feel like Cinderella and she's my ugly (personality wise) step sister
Rebecca·
Good to know I'm not alone Hun xxx