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Alyssa Chev

Love being told that I'm not allowed to say anything about being in pain or being tired or being uncomfortable by my…

Love being told that I'm not allowed to say anything about being in pain or being tired or being uncomfortable by my baby's father because I'm pregnant. The degradation is getting really old. He says I do nothing and yet he sleeps all day while I cook and clean. Not to mention he hasn't brought anything to the table for his daughter, and hasn't saved a dime because he drinks every day and smokes a pack a day (and he has no job so guess who has to pay for it).

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chevma13

Alyssa Chev

I'm not sure, I don't really know too many people anymore. (sorry for delayed response, been super busy)

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stasjafawn

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@chevma13 hopefully she will. if not, is there someone else you can ask without him knowing?

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chevma13

Alyssa Chev

I was just messaging my mom about staying there once my brother and his girlfriend move out. I'm hoping she will let me.

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kimberly114

kimberly114

Leave him alone he's not showing you that he plans to be a good father already and your child doesn't deserve that.

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stasjafawn

StasjaВ ожидании первенца

@chevma13

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stasjafawn

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That's so toxic!!!! I think your best option is to pack up essentials and go to your mom's - if it's that bad now, I'm scared to think about when your child comes.

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chevma13

Alyssa Chev

I'm not allowed to have friends, I can't even go out with my mother without him calling every five minutes telling me to come home.

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stasjafawn

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@chevma13 find a good friend who will help you keep your goal straight. honestly I can help if you need someone. it's hard but worth it in the end - I had to do something similar with my mother, but for entirely different reasons

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chevma13

Alyssa Chev

I've tried leaving multiple times and he guilts me into letting him come back. I need to find some strength.

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stasjafawn

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Sounds like it's time to leave. Some people aren't worth it!

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!

Okay seen this post on Facebook and I reposted is saying "it should be your husband first but most women would say the…

Okay seen this post on Facebook and I reposted is saying "it should be your husband first but most women would say the child" two women responded very negatively like "it is your child first smh" and "what is his hands broken he should fix his own plate" but I'm a Christian and in the Bible says your husband comes first then the children no I'm not talking about a boyfriend nothing I'm saying a husband when he gets off work he should be the first one to receive that hotmail he's been at work all day what do you ladies say everyone has a different take on things