Love being told that I'm not allowed to say anything about being in pain or being tired or being…
Love being told that I'm not allowed to say anything about being in pain or being tired or being uncomfortable by my baby's father because I'm pregnant. The degradation is getting really old. He says I do nothing and yet he sleeps all day while I cook and clean. Not to mention he hasn't brought anything to the table for his daughter, and hasn't saved a dime because he drinks every day and smokes a pack a day (and he has no job so guess who has to pay for it).
Stasja·
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Sounds like it's time to leave. Some people aren't worth it!
Alyssa Chev·
I've tried leaving multiple times and he guilts me into letting him come back. I need to find some strength.
Stasja·
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@chevma13 find a good friend who will help you keep your goal straight. honestly I can help if you need someone. it's hard but worth it in the end - I had to do something similar with my mother, but for entirely different reasons
Alyssa Chev·
I'm not allowed to have friends, I can't even go out with my mother without him calling every five minutes telling me to come home.
Stasja·
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That's so toxic!!!! I think your best option is to pack up essentials and go to your mom's - if it's that bad now, I'm scared to think about when your child comes.
Stasja·
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@chevma13
kimberly114·
Leave him alone he's not showing you that he plans to be a good father already and your child doesn't deserve that.
Alyssa Chev·
I was just messaging my mom about staying there once my brother and his girlfriend move out. I'm hoping she will let me.
Stasja·
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@chevma13 hopefully she will. if not, is there someone else you can ask without him knowing?
Alyssa Chev·
I'm not sure, I don't really know too many people anymore. (sorry for delayed response, been super busy)