we are not staying together...

I'd punch her in the face. then leave him. you don't need a dbag like that in your life. or her for that matter either. if he wants to be a dad to your little one that's your guys choice but I don't see why you should stay with him as a couple. I have friends who did that and let's just say they are the most unhappy miserable people I know.

it's not easy

I did too, I know the feeling. But ur doing what u need to do for the babies and that's what matters

I hate when people try to tell me that.@shish, and thanks @kat616 . I'm so deeply hurt, but I have to wake up in the morning and put a smile on my face for my baby girl, and the baby that's due in August

I'm sorry. 😥

that happened to me when I was pregnant with my second. everybody talks about the woman cheating on her husband when they're deployed, but people fail to mention the men that cheat on their wives right before they deploy because they're not thinking straight due to the stress of deploying. I wish I could say something to help girl, but if ur anything like me the last thing I wanted to hear was people telling me "it'll be ok" or "it'll get better"....I was too angry and bitter