My babys father nor none of his family bother to hit me up , they live 3 hours away . So should i just say fuck it and not tell him shit about the baby ? Here i am 16 weeks prego . Me and him stopped talking cause he started denying the baby .
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
Yah it’s over between me and my baby daddy Kevin were having a baby together I’m hurt by him now
so i txted my bd an told him i might wanna move the shower to the park instead of his sisters house because of our arguement an he ignored me so now i will ignore him an not tell him when the baby actually comes. am i wrong??
It happened....? 2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
Daijah·
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Who even try? Just walk away. Ignore.
Julia·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (29 нед.)
My daughter's father denied her when I was 8 weeks. he didn't start talking to us until a month or so ago and she's 2 now, but still doesn't say anything about her unless I bring it up first.
babymay2016·
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@j.echo, Exactly. The only reason I kept his number is so my boyfriend can send him a text for me when my son is born, and I don't even have to worry about it anymore... I will let him know but not be disappointed when he STILL doesn't show. (This is what I tell myself anyways)
Jes·
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Mine lives in Cali, NEVER checks in unless I message him. Yet he likes to say he's a good dad. He won't be getting anymore ultrasound pics, but I'll shoot him a courtesy text when I give birth.
Danielle·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)
My opinion is to just say fuck him, you told him, he Denys it and that's not your fault
babymay2016·
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I'm telling you that it honestly is not worth it at all. I have gotten myself so upset so many times, texting him with no reply.. telling him when I had to go to the ER, no reply... I mean countless things that you gotta be fucked up to not reply to that. He also got my hopes up every time he says he will see me or give me money or come to an appointment.. NEVER showed. You can not make someone care and it is harmful to your baby to get upset. I couldn't help myself and text him like a million times, and I still get upset even though I know he won't reply. I have had to give my boyfriend my baby's fathers number, just in case... I don't even know why. Because I could NOT handle having his number myself and I kept texting him even though he never replies and doesn't give a shit.
flaka·
@babymay2016, ya your right. I tried textin him i never get a response , i shld just give up
babymay2016·
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If he knows about the baby, and still chooses to do NOTHING about it, then I say fuck that guy. I went out of my way for weeks and months trying to get my baby daddy to care, and it is a complete waste of time. You told him, that's all you can really do. Don't go out of your way for someone who doesn't care. You can't make someone put in effort no matter how much you want to. You and your baby deserve better than that. He made his choice.