My babys father nor none of his family bother to hit me up , they live 3 hours away . So should i just say fuck it and not tell him shit about the baby ? Here i am 16 weeks prego . Me and him stopped talking cause he started denying the baby .
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My daughter's father denied her when I was 8 weeks. he didn't start talking to us until a month or so ago and she's 2 now, but still doesn't say anything about her unless I bring it up first.
@j.echo, Exactly. The only reason I kept his number is so my boyfriend can send him a text for me when my son is born, and I don't even have to worry about it anymore... I will let him know but not be disappointed when he STILL doesn't show. (This is what I tell myself anyways)
Mine lives in Cali, NEVER checks in unless I message him. Yet he likes to say he's a good dad. He won't be getting anymore ultrasound pics, but I'll shoot him a courtesy text when I give birth.
My opinion is to just say fuck him, you told him, he Denys it and that's not your fault
I'm telling you that it honestly is not worth it at all. I have gotten myself so upset so many times, texting him with no reply.. telling him when I had to go to the ER, no reply... I mean countless things that you gotta be fucked up to not reply to that. He also got my hopes up every time he says he will see me or give me money or come to an appointment.. NEVER showed. You can not make someone care and it is harmful to your baby to get upset. I couldn't help myself and text him like a million times, and I still get upset even though I know he won't reply. I have had to give my boyfriend my baby's fathers number, just in case... I don't even know why. Because I could NOT handle having his number myself and I kept texting him even though he never replies and doesn't give a shit.
@babymay2016, ya your right. I tried textin him i never get a response , i shld just give up
If he knows about the baby, and still chooses to do NOTHING about it, then I say fuck that guy. I went out of my way for weeks and months trying to get my baby daddy to care, and it is a complete waste of time. You told him, that's all you can really do. Don't go out of your way for someone who doesn't care. You can't make someone put in effort no matter how much you want to. You and your baby deserve better than that. He made his choice.
Who even try? Just walk away. Ignore.