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I have a scheduled induction date and I haven't told anyone but my mom and won't let my boyfriend tell his family....

I have a scheduled induction date and I haven't told anyone but my mom and won't let my boyfriend tell his family....

I don't want anyone there but him and my mom and don't want visitors until after the first day of meeting my first child. I want to be able to rest, bond, and just have my little family unit together alone before we have visitors.....

My boyfriends family is NOT happy about this.....

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domena84

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totally agree with @kamiyahj

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kamiyahj

Kamiyah JonesВ ожидании первенца

I think it's your choice but I would let him have his mom there or whoever is most important to him because it's just as much his child as yours and his mom being there is just as important as your mom being there. Just something to think about. I do understand not wanting all those people there but he should have one person at least.

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lilaa_dunne16

LilaВ ожидании первенца

My husband and I aren't having anyone visit us in the hospital and are making every wait until we are home... My mom and his mom are going to be the only people on the delivery room with us

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youngg.mommyy

Vanessa AmorМама дочки-младенца

i did the same thing, i had friends that kept barging in so i asked my mom to tell the nurses that no one could come in.

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missing300user

missing300userМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I done something similar, but they all knew when I was going to be induced, I told them I'll call them when I'm up for the visits. Close to all of them threw fits & never visited, thinking they'd break my heart! 😂😂😂

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twinmamma2015

twinmamma2015Мама двоих (младенец)

good for you!!! they don't like it to bad.

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mrshamilton830

NeshaМама троих детей

your baby, your decision

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