Need advice me and my boyfriend currently live with his mother and his father who is in the army I'm due March 24th and…

That's a tough one....

I told him I don't wanna move... I couldn't do that to my mom and can't imagine being that far from her.. And he said he is moving anyway.. @justmarriedhavingaboy

Why not him moving in with you and your mom ?

He won't do it.. My family has been nothing but accepting of him and his mom is nothing but drama and causes so many problems... He chooses her over me every time... @snicole12

why don't u have a choice in this? this should be a discussion not something u get no say so in. u guys are having a baby together and if u chose to stay with ur mom he wouldn't care being so far away from u? i would stay with mom because you're gunnu need all the help and support once baby is home and if his mom is drama then youre just gunnu be more stressed which your baby can feel :/

Exactly! I'm doing everything I can but I honestly can't see myself being so far from my mom and my father who just had a stroke a couple months ago... But I feel like my family doesn't matter... @hernandezmommy

@briannabdb, not only do u need your mom but your mom needs u and he should understand that and accept that. the fact he didn't even discuss it with u just left u no choice shows exactly how he feels and thinks of your opinions. that's really mean honestly..

@briannabdb, if something happened to ur dad while u were away would u be able to forgive yourself ? that's a big question and something to think about.. or would the guilt overcome u?

I know I don't wanna move.. And me expecting and having the first grand baby and not being able to watch my little brother grow up is killing me.. I can't see myself moving.. @hernandezmommy

tbh.. not having your mom there during this time would be a lot harder than having a boyfriend 13hrs away.

@briannabdb, at least for a little while stay with mom so she can help with the baby. he should understand

Wish he could compromise... @hernandezmommy @pinkkittie87

@briannabdb, but if he's not hes leaving you no choice. he might change his mind maybe he just expects u to move anyway and doesn't think you'll stand your ground?

@briannabdb, If he were your husband I would definitely understand you going and I wouldn't give you this advice. He has made a decision that with or without you he is leaving, If he truly cared he would be just as stuck as you are trying to figure out what to do because you matter too. You are the woman carrying his child and he still can't move away from his parents. That would be motivation enough for me too run in the opposite direction, because at some point whether marriage is in the future or not you are going to need and want baby and you to be a priority and he won't, stay where your support is and you know you are loved.

@briannabdb, I'm sorry I fell asleep. I think he's being selfish and this situation shows how much he cares about his family. he isn't the child to his parents anymore he's having one! He needs to think of you and your child. I would advise you to to be the more responsible smart one and do what's best for you and your child. if he goes let him. do u really wana be stuck without option 14 hrs away from home when y'all have more problems? stand your ground and make him choose his parents or his family. that's up to him to step up and be there not you to try n make him hunny.

@hernandezmommy, I totally agree

@suprise4, agreed I'd so run it shows a lot of the future decisions. he needs to make the decision to stay

i totally i understand what your going through. i moved 28 hours away from my parents my mom was devastated but she was understanding and liked visiting fl. but my husband got a job back in TX so we had to move back where my parents were. his parents were really sad to see us leave fl. but me and my husband talked to both of our familys and told them that we were gonna move where ever his job lead him to. but sense his your bf stay with your mom! i stayed with my mom you will need as much help as u can get!! he should compromise! he shouldn't just think about him self now. @briannabdb

Thank all of you for the support! I'm sure things will change once she gets here! Just taking it one day at a time @milanlang @justmarriedhavingaboy @suprise4 @hernandezmommy