Just wanting some opinions. As I stated before, I go to a midwife clinic with several different midwives. They switch up everytime I go in for an appointment so I get the chance to meet all of them. my main concern is that I did the strep B test today and they made me swab myself in the bathroom, and they also told me that they don't check for dilation until I go into labor and go to the actual hospital. This really makes me nervous bc now that I think back to all my appointments.....they never even once looked down there at my pelvic area. No-one has ever looked at me at all down there. Is this normal?