Okay don't judge but I do attached parenting I do not cio I am a sahm so I'm always here for her but now I'm getting criticized by my husband about the way I'm raising our child he said she's spoiled yes she cries for me and only me but that's cause I'm here with her all the time she can play on her own just fine but when she wants to be held she will let you and the whole world know I just don't know how to feel since we were both raised differently and I'm the main one raising our child but getting grief for it
It gives them trust and since of security. It's good for them. I'm the same way with my kids. I got grief this whole time. They are 2 and 4. I don't give a crap what anyone else says to me. People don't love enough in this world as it is. My kids will grow up knowing love and affection ❤️
@princess_intheoven16, I enjoy her snuggles so much it could be because she always want me instead of him and it bothers him
SHE'S A BABY!!!!! ): As you should look at it that shouldn't even be a concern yet. you should talk to your husband honestly I read an article that said there is no such thing as spoiling until they hit a little past a year. but hugging and cuddling still does not coumtbas spoiling
@princess_intheoven16, she will be 8 months the 6th but I look at it as one day she's not gonna wanna be held or cuddled anymore so enjoy it while she still wants to
Me and my husband get into this as well. He thinks our son will be spoiled. I just want him to know that I'm here for him and I won't let anything happen to him. I can't let him cry or be upset. I will pick him up and love on him no matter what. I told my husband that I wanted to build trust and he understood for the most part, and once he knew how adamant I was about it he didn't give me any more grief over it. Just tell him that's the way it's going to be! Your baby deserves to feel loved.