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riley0930
Sarah Cline·Мама дочки (9 лет)
I need some emotional support.
I live in a 2 bed apt and I've just had 2 people move in with my husband and I. The second room was my 4m old daughters (granted she never slept in there) it was decorated and all her stuff was in there. but since these two people moved in I had to take down her crib, move all her clothes to my closet, move the changing table to my room, and take down all the decorations.
my husband thinks I shouldn't be so depressed about it, but like I nested like crazy and put together this perfect room... I even made all the crib bedding by hand. now she has no room and my room is cramped. I just feel so sad about this. like, we moved to a 2 bed apt specifically so she could have a room. idk what to do.
25.02.2016
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francesgln92
Frances Galan·Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет)
sorry lol @rileymadisonhasmyheart ril
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reynatres12
Reynalda·Мама сына (12 лет)
If you don't say nothing now your husband probably thinks your okay with it. Talk to him and tell him what is going on and hide your damn keys!! If they ain't paying for rent and not giving yall a dime well they should have had enough money to save up and moved out!
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mrscruz0530
🎀Jacqui🎀·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)
Haha thanks ! Ya do something cuz for them to be there rent free ,taking your car, eating your food and not even giving you anything I don't think so you guys aren't running a shelter I would get if it was family then it's a little different but even then you shouldn't let someone take advantage of you like that but watch start putting dates to it and they'll get moving do they even work ??
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riley0930
Sarah Cline·Мама дочки (9 лет)
@mrscruz0530,
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riley0930
Sarah Cline·Мама дочки (9 лет)
girl you're fucking great. lol. I'll come up with some excuse. get them off my couch. I prefer them out so my girl can have her room back but I'll settle for split rent till they get out. shit those two can get an apt together since they are such good friends now. idfc
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mrscruz0530
🎀Jacqui🎀·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)
You should tell them they have 30 days to get their shit together and them having a car isn't your problem either you didn't tell them to move out of where they were living so why put u guys on the back burner and make u guys wait until they get a car ?? That's what busses are for and they'd be able to pay for it if they stopped buying beer and weed . Girl it's time you put your foot down even if you have to say you have family coming in next month so your going to need them out because you need the space or just be straight up and tell them that this wasn't a permanent thing and you guys have been more than generous by allowing them to stay as long as they have and you guys would appreciate if they moved I bet you they will find a place they won't allow themselves to be homeless but the fact is that you guys are being so lenient towards them they are taking your kindness for weakness and riding it out to the fullest .
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riley0930
Sarah Cline·Мама дочки (9 лет)
@francesgln92,
definitely not preggo. how that came up. lol. but I still don't want some around my 4m old.
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riley0930
Sarah Cline·Мама дочки (9 лет)
@mrscruz0530,
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riley0930
Sarah Cline·Мама дочки (9 лет)
lol definitely not mean. just honest. like I've had enough honestly, I want to scream at them. they were living on my living room floor and couch but the mess got out of hand so my hubby told them to take over the room bc "I was bitching about how dirty my apt was and how stressful it was" they were apparently more than happy... they are cool guys but they said they would be in their own place as soon as they got a car first. like quit throwing your money away on beer and weed and get TF outta my daughters room
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francesgln92
Frances Galan·Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет)
for 1 if the dude doesn't ask you to use the car he should not be taking it at all. 2 they need to pay something if they will be staying with you guys and 3 they should not be smoking at all since you are pregnant and have child already. if they eat something they better be giving you money for food or going grocery shopping with you or but their own food.
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mrscruz0530
🎀Jacqui🎀·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)
Sorry for the long message but that would drive me crazy !
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mrscruz0530
🎀Jacqui🎀·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)
Well for starters taking the car ?? Huge no! And eating your food and all that I couldn't ! Why would they move if they have no place to go that was stupid on their part and to put you guys in that situation is ridiculous I may seem mean by saying this but I would've had them sleep in the leaving room and kept all their stuff packed up so they knew it was a temporary situation you guys are being taken advantage of by giving them the room . You seem super nice and it shows by letting them get away this much but you worked hard for that nursery so your daughter deserves to have it regardless of if she sleeps in it or not you put hard work in that room for it to not be hers like it was intended they obviously have money for weed so that right there means they are able to get money if they wanted to for food, gas , etc.. It's time you put your foot down if it's been two months they either need to split the rent with you or move out and head back to where they came from this shouldn't be your problem !
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riley0930
Sarah Cline·Мама дочки (9 лет)
and they're both stoners so my food is constantly disappearing.
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riley0930
Sarah Cline·Мама дочки (9 лет)
lol. I knooow. I just don't have the heart bc they have no where to go lol. I'm gonna tell my husband that he needs to talk to them and they need to help out somehow. one of the guys takes my car randomly and doesn't tell me so I wake up and can't get to school. and he leaves my tank empty. like WTF @francesgln92
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francesgln92
Frances Galan·Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет)
oh honey either they help pay rent, but food, act because they live there too or their ass is kicked to the curb.
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riley0930
Sarah Cline·Мама дочки (9 лет)
my husband is too nice to his friends. they decided to move from Houston to where we are for their own reasons and my husband was like "you can stay here till you find a place" and they just won't leave now. it's been 2 months. they don't pay rent either. @francesgln92
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francesgln92
Frances Galan·Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет)
why did the 2 people move in?
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