so babies dad and I arent together. His family is throwing him a baby shower. my question is even though they didnt invite me to it should I invite his family to mine??
yadiraМама сына (3 года)
that makes sense but since his mom is not being fair i would sugguest you see a laywer and get some type of parenting time becuase if she is being childish with just a babyshowere i dont want to think what she will want once the baby is born @sunshine09
@browneyez2113,
they are giving him everything he needs for the baby since he will have his own place. but hes not even getting the baby until Im done breastfeeding which could be up to a year.
I agree with other, invite them and they can decide if they want be a part of it, but you always know that you did right thing
missing154userВ ожидании первенца
My boyfriends mom has been childish the entire pregnancy and my grandma is throwing my shower. I didn't even want her there but my grandma insisted I be the bigger person and at least invite her. She declined, which is fine. Kind of hurt my feelings but neither or us are talking to her right now. I'm over it now and it just shows how she can't put stuff in the past and be happy her only child is having a baby but oh well. She'll regret it later.
EmilyМама подростков
I agree. be the bigger person and invite them. kill them with kindness
yadiraМама сына (3 года)
so he gets the gifts or do they give them to you how willl this work?
I'll admit I had a bit of a temper tantrum when I found out they werent throwing me one. no one told me until recently and made me not even want to have one. i dont need anyone to help me. I can do this by myself.
rgaineВ ожидании первенца
I'd be the bigger person and at least invite them. They don't have to go but then it's their decision.
That is super petty of them. I would invite them just to show them I'm a bigger person.
all you can do is try to be civil with them and asking them is a good first step. but it's up to them if they decide to be supportive for both of you or not regardless of y'all being together
StasjaВ ожидании первенца
I agree with hermommy. they're not inviting you to the one they're planning, so why should you invite them
I mean you could always be the bigger person and invite them and be the bigger person
DomoniqueВ ожидании первенца
I would only because there's a child involved and at the end of the day you can say you tried and if they don't come then "oh well"
@hermommy, I just didnt want to be petty
I wouldn't not if they're being that childish
Pretty depressed right now making a list of ppl to invite to my baby shower. I dont have anyone to invite. Just family and no friends. This is gonna be embarrassing af.
So I’m not a fan of my fiancé’s family. I want you all opinion on what you would do. His family wants to throw me a baby shower. Yet they haven’t invited any of my family and friends and none of my fiancé’s friends. My fiancé and his niece haven’t spoke since May since I got into an argument with her and supposedly this baby shower is her idea. Would you go to a baby shower that no one you know or friends and family won’t be apart of? Would you just not show up? My fiancé has already voiced his concerns and they were ignored. I’m thinking about not even going.
IF WHEN I HAVE MY BABY I DONT WANT MY BD OR HIS FAMILY TO EVER C HER WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO???
My boyfriend just asked if he could invite his ex gf who is also his current best friend to the baby shower...should I allow it
My baby (27) and I (21), can't wait until our family is complete (:
Amanda·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (18 нед.)
I'd be petty and not invite them. Just me.
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