so babies dad and I arent together. His family is throwing him a baby shower. my question is even though they didnt invite me to it should I invite his family to mine??

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Amanda·Мама троих детей

I'd be petty and not invite them. Just me.

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yadira·Мама подростка

that makes sense but since his mom is not being fair i would sugguest you see a laywer and get some type of parenting time becuase if she is being childish with just a babyshowere i dont want to think what she will want once the baby is born @sunshine09

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@browneyez2113,

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they are giving him everything he needs for the baby since he will have his own place. but hes not even getting the baby until Im done breastfeeding which could be up to a year.

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I agree with other, invite them and they can decide if they want be a part of it, but you always know that you did right thing

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missing154user·Мама сына (9 лет)

My boyfriends mom has been childish the entire pregnancy and my grandma is throwing my shower. I didn't even want her there but my grandma insisted I be the bigger person and at least invite her. She declined, which is fine. Kind of hurt my feelings but neither or us are talking to her right now. I'm over it now and it just shows how she can't put stuff in the past and be happy her only child is having a baby but oh well. She'll regret it later.

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Emily·Мама подростков

I agree. be the bigger person and invite them. kill them with kindness

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yadira·Мама подростка

so he gets the gifts or do they give them to you how willl this work?

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I'll admit I had a bit of a temper tantrum when I found out they werent throwing me one. no one told me until recently and made me not even want to have one. i dont need anyone to help me. I can do this by myself.

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rgaine·Мама сына (9 лет)

I'd be the bigger person and at least invite them. They don't have to go but then it's their decision.

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That is super petty of them. I would invite them just to show them I'm a bigger person.

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all you can do is try to be civil with them and asking them is a good first step. but it's up to them if they decide to be supportive for both of you or not regardless of y'all being together

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Stasja·Мама сына (9 лет)

I agree with hermommy. they're not inviting you to the one they're planning, so why should you invite them

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I mean you could always be the bigger person and invite them and be the bigger person

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Domonique·Мама дочки (9 лет)

I would only because there's a child involved and at the end of the day you can say you tried and if they don't come then "oh well"

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@hermommy, I just didnt want to be petty

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I wouldn't not if they're being that childish

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