so babies dad and I arent together. His family is throwing him a baby shower. my question is even though they didnt invite me to it should I invite his family to mine??
that makes sense but since his mom is not being fair i would sugguest you see a laywer and get some type of parenting time becuase if she is being childish with just a babyshowere i dont want to think what she will want once the baby is born @sunshine09
they are giving him everything he needs for the baby since he will have his own place. but hes not even getting the baby until Im done breastfeeding which could be up to a year.
I agree with other, invite them and they can decide if they want be a part of it, but you always know that you did right thing
My boyfriends mom has been childish the entire pregnancy and my grandma is throwing my shower. I didn't even want her there but my grandma insisted I be the bigger person and at least invite her. She declined, which is fine. Kind of hurt my feelings but neither or us are talking to her right now. I'm over it now and it just shows how she can't put stuff in the past and be happy her only child is having a baby but oh well. She'll regret it later.
I'll admit I had a bit of a temper tantrum when I found out they werent throwing me one. no one told me until recently and made me not even want to have one. i dont need anyone to help me. I can do this by myself.
I'd be the bigger person and at least invite them. They don't have to go but then it's their decision.
That is super petty of them. I would invite them just to show them I'm a bigger person.
all you can do is try to be civil with them and asking them is a good first step. but it's up to them if they decide to be supportive for both of you or not regardless of y'all being together
I agree with hermommy. they're not inviting you to the one they're planning, so why should you invite them
I mean you could always be the bigger person and invite them and be the bigger person
I would only because there's a child involved and at the end of the day you can say you tried and if they don't come then "oh well"
I'd be petty and not invite them. Just me.