Briony Emmy
briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

So...my OH has now decided he wants to see baby being born...I'm not sure how I feel about this, what are everyone else's thoughts?

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jamesnbump16
Rachel·Мама сына (3 года), беременна (11 нед.)

haha xxx

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

Yeah that does sound lucky! My MIL wants a whole bloody nursery at her house! No thanks! My baby, not yours :) haha @jamesnbump16 xx

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jamesnbump16
Rachel·Мама сына (3 года), беременна (11 нед.)

I'm lucky @briony1994 my MIL has no desire to be there as she couldn't cope with my SIL 'S delivery she called me in to help my SIL cuz she was shaking that much lol c

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katiesutheran2014
Katie Jones·Мама сына-младенца

I didn't want anyone but the midwife looking down there while I was in labour, I was adamant on it as I'm such a paranoid person over my body, but when it came to it I really didn't care and let OH and my mum watch, they even touched his head as he was coming out 😊 x

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

Haha yeah I've been told that several times but if I find out after that my requests have been broken then I won't be happy, like MIL wants to be there...erm no! @jamesnbump16 xx

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jamesnbump16
Rachel·Мама сына (3 года), беременна (11 нед.)

it's emabarrasing although with pain relief you will be on cloud nine and won't care I mad jokers with the woman who was sat between my legs doing my stitches xxx

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

This is exactly why I have several reasons as to why I don't want anyone down there 😂😂 lol @jamesnbump16 xx

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jamesnbump16
Rachel·Мама сына (3 года), беременна (11 нед.)

my mum looked down there when o had my lb and said oh he's got lots of hair i then had to explain I hadn't been able to trim down there before I went into labour lmao x

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

I know that it's just everyone keeps getting on at me, especially OH family members -_- there making me not enjoy my pregnant at all! :/ @mummytomollie xx

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mummytomollie
sarah·Мама дочки-младенца

You need to not worry about anyone else and there opinions ... What they say don't matter it's what u want that matters xx

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

I keep trying to tell people this @mummytomollie but everyone seems to have their opinion or what ever my opinion is it seems to be wrong somehow cx

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mummytomollie
sarah·Мама дочки-младенца

You can have who u want there that should be your choice whatever makes you the most cumfy x

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

@jod1303, that's what I have said all along! Only the doctors and the midwives are allowed down there! No one else, but no one seems to understand that it's my decision and it's what makes me most comfortable not what everyone else thinks I should do xx

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jod1303
jody·Мама двоих (1 год, 1 год), ждёт третьего

due to cultural differences my husband said all along he wont come in . but he did just hid in the corner n thats where i prefered him to stay😂 he was petrified! xx @mummytobe i shouted at my mum when the doctor told her to look all along i said no1 is lookin at my nun lol xx

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mummytomollie
sarah·Мама дочки-младенца

When your in labour u really won't give a shit who sees your Noonie lol x

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

My OH has a little boy and he watched his birth but I really don't think I'm comfortable with it, like he's going to see my nun stretch that far?! I do want to have sex again at some point haha! I feel like nothing I'm doing is my decision any more, everyone has to have their input and I'm just like ergh go away!!! @polisha0311 @stacey804 @mamapop @mummytobe xx

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mummytomollie
sarah·Мама дочки-младенца

My partner was at the birth of our little girl, he was down that end watched the whole thing he even held the lamp in place while she stitched me up lol xx

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mamapop
Poppy·Мама дочки-младенца

@briony1994, mine was adamant he didn't want to see it and he would stay the the top of the bed. He said it grossed him out. But when it came to it I had to use the stirrups so he could see anyway and he just watched, he said it was fascinating. I'm glad I didn't have to see it😂 xx

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staceyymzack
Stacey Marie·В ожидании первенца

He might change his mind once everything starts going on haha xx

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polisha0311
Polina·В ожидании первенца

Oh no that's no good if he did it coz of MIL ... If you really don't want him to see down there - show him some birth videos on YouTube ! This might put him off 😃😉 xx @briony1994

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

@polisha0311

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

My OH has now decided he wants to see it coming out, he's only decided this because my MIL has popped up with her opinion! He's never wanted to see baby coming out before this morning no olisha0311

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polisha0311
Polina·В ожидании первенца

My partner will be with me all the time but I don't think he actually wants to see how the baby is coming out lol xx @briony1994 @leanne2016

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briony1994
Briony Emmy·В ожидании первенца

Yeah my OH wants to be looking down there...I'm all for him being there, I'd never deprive him of that...but looking down there? Not too sure about that @leanne2016

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leanne2016
leanne·Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (22 нед.)

my oh is gonna be there but not actually looking down there hahaha

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leanne2016
leanne·Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (22 нед.)

well if it's his child why not?

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