So...my OH has now decided he wants to see baby being born...I'm not sure how I feel about this, what are everyone else's thoughts?
Yeah that does sound lucky! My MIL wants a whole bloody nursery at her house! No thanks! My baby, not yours :) haha @jamesnbump16 xx
I'm lucky @briony1994 my MIL has no desire to be there as she couldn't cope with my SIL 'S delivery she called me in to help my SIL cuz she was shaking that much lol c
I didn't want anyone but the midwife looking down there while I was in labour, I was adamant on it as I'm such a paranoid person over my body, but when it came to it I really didn't care and let OH and my mum watch, they even touched his head as he was coming out 😊 x
Haha yeah I've been told that several times but if I find out after that my requests have been broken then I won't be happy, like MIL wants to be there...erm no! @jamesnbump16 xx
it's emabarrasing although with pain relief you will be on cloud nine and won't care I mad jokers with the woman who was sat between my legs doing my stitches xxx
This is exactly why I have several reasons as to why I don't want anyone down there 😂😂 lol @jamesnbump16 xx
my mum looked down there when o had my lb and said oh he's got lots of hair i then had to explain I hadn't been able to trim down there before I went into labour lmao x
I know that it's just everyone keeps getting on at me, especially OH family members -_- there making me not enjoy my pregnant at all! :/ @mummytomollie xx
You need to not worry about anyone else and there opinions ... What they say don't matter it's what u want that matters xx
I keep trying to tell people this @mummytomollie but everyone seems to have their opinion or what ever my opinion is it seems to be wrong somehow cx
You can have who u want there that should be your choice whatever makes you the most cumfy x
@jod1303, that's what I have said all along! Only the doctors and the midwives are allowed down there! No one else, but no one seems to understand that it's my decision and it's what makes me most comfortable not what everyone else thinks I should do xx
due to cultural differences my husband said all along he wont come in . but he did just hid in the corner n thats where i prefered him to stay😂 he was petrified! xx @mummytobe i shouted at my mum when the doctor told her to look all along i said no1 is lookin at my nun lol xx
When your in labour u really won't give a shit who sees your Noonie lol x
My OH has a little boy and he watched his birth but I really don't think I'm comfortable with it, like he's going to see my nun stretch that far?! I do want to have sex again at some point haha! I feel like nothing I'm doing is my decision any more, everyone has to have their input and I'm just like ergh go away!!! @polisha0311 @stacey804 @mamapop @mummytobe xx
My partner was at the birth of our little girl, he was down that end watched the whole thing he even held the lamp in place while she stitched me up lol xx
@briony1994, mine was adamant he didn't want to see it and he would stay the the top of the bed. He said it grossed him out. But when it came to it I had to use the stirrups so he could see anyway and he just watched, he said it was fascinating. I'm glad I didn't have to see it😂 xx
He might change his mind once everything starts going on haha xx
Oh no that's no good if he did it coz of MIL ... If you really don't want him to see down there - show him some birth videos on YouTube ! This might put him off 😃😉 xx @briony1994
My OH has now decided he wants to see it coming out, he's only decided this because my MIL has popped up with her opinion! He's never wanted to see baby coming out before this morning no olisha0311
My partner will be with me all the time but I don't think he actually wants to see how the baby is coming out lol xx @briony1994 @leanne2016
Yeah my OH wants to be looking down there...I'm all for him being there, I'd never deprive him of that...but looking down there? Not too sure about that @leanne2016
my oh is gonna be there but not actually looking down there hahaha
haha xxx