Turned down for sex again because "it weirds him out." I know a lot of pregnant women go through this but is still hard to know that your own partner won't have sex with you. I feel so unattractive. He won't even touch me in any inappropriate way. Not even playing around like he used to. I don't even need the orgasm, I just want to feel close to him, feel loved. I'm locked up crying in my bathroom again because of how bad I feel.
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@littlefirefly, I did that to mine mostly because I was hurt . but some men are scared because they think they are going to hurt the baby even if you show them that there is no way
@momma1, it really does suck because this is when I need him the most. I feel like giving him a taste of his own medicine once in back to normal and just refuse to have sex with him for some stupid reason.
@aboutellesbabe, I think that's what bothers me, that he's just waiting for me to get "hot" again. I kind of see it as the equivalent of me not wanting to have sex with him because he got fat. I do think he doesn't find me attractive anymore, he just doesn't want to hurt my feelings by telling me so.
My SO didn't have sex with me at all. He kept saying that I didn't look unattractive it was just weird. Now he wants to have sex like ALL the time and I'm so exhausted I'm the one turning him down! So don't worry it's not that he doesn't love you it think you're unattractive. That big bump really is just weirding him out haha. Soon enough you'll be in my position... Sore 😜 no but really he's going to see you back to normal, the mother of his child and think that you are hotter than ever! keep your head up girl!
@littlefirefly, omg I was the same I used to get so mad ! I literally waited months to get intimate again it sucked
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
well i was just informed we won't be habing sex again he's to scared she can feel it😢😢😢😳
Guys if I was looking at a place to rent on Craigslist and I go to click on the ad again and this pops up does that mean it's a scam?? I need to know because my boyfriend and I have been talking to the person !!
Yea I get it. I felt the same way. Don't get me wrong I don't think it's the right thing for them to do. They should want us at every stage of our bodies and life. It is a little weird though if you think about it, if you try to see it through their eyes. For us we feel a special connection with the baby being inside of us. For them, there is a baby right there.. Close to our vaginas and they are poking at it. Again I'm not saying it's the right thing to just leave us hanging and not love on us. I just don't want you to feel ugly or unloved because you're not!