So totally awkward and tmi.. but I'm really feeling insecure about having sex again when I'm healed from having the baby.. is it gonna feel different down there to him? like am I gonna be way looser? 😂 so awkward I know but I just had my first baby and don't know what to expect I'm feeling very self conscious about it..
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Okay that makes me feel a lot better thank you ❤❤ 💞@bryaxtonsmommy
I had an 8 lb baby, my first and my husband said it was tighter. Also I had 4th degree tearing which is not common but pretty extensive. Don't worry about it momma!
if he's a real man though he will realize you just birthed a small human and take that into consideration, but our bodies are made for this and it should heal back just fine..
don't be , seriously @ryennbanks2016. it's more important that yu feel comfortable and are ready to have sex and enjoy it
I was scared about the same thing. Just talk to him about it and ask him what he would feel like if it was looser, most guys expect it to be. He should reassure you & honestly if you wait 6 weeks then he will be wanting it so bad I bet you he won't complain at all! But I'm betting you it'll be the same if not tighter than before
I'm so nervous my boyfriend is going to be disappointed. :( @chhaya
I didn't even do kegals but if you add those in you will for sure be fine!
I waited 5w 5d and my bf said I got tighter. vaginas are made to stretch and shrink back.
yes I am really sensitive down there too and it did feel weird especially because we used a condom @mommabird
yu might be slightly looser not a. whole lot but if yu wait the whole 6 weeks and do kegels it will be tight. yu should be more worried abt how it feel for yu instead of how it feel for him . We just started having sex again and I'm not that into it smh I wish I was but I'm just not
I was tighter afterwards. Still am and takes a little bit more to relax those muscles but that isn't a bad thing lol. Sensation wise it felt a little weird on my end but he didn't notice anything but the tightness. And by weird I mean more sensitive.
The first time I had sex after having my daughter was worse than losing my virginity. He said it was tighter than before. I got 3 stitches afterwards so I guess that played a part.