so my bf, all of a sudden didn't wanna have sex tonight( knowing we do it so often bcuz of uncomfortableness) and I let him know last te that Yea he might be tired but if he ever turned me down for sex when I was actually in the mood, or not hurting or sore.. that he would regret it so he ain't getting no a$$, for the next 6 weeks until baby comes and then 6+ weeks for recovery!!! his fault .. I guess when he learns a lesson he'll have balls of steel!!!!😞😞
I have to agree with @kellynicole , if I'm not in the mood I hope my husband is understanding enough to not make a big deal about it. There's been a few times my husband wasn't in the mood and it actually did bother me, Idk why but I didn't say anything cuz I don't want to hurt his feelings. men are way more sensitive than ppl think and they're self conscious about that stuff too.
right like come on, I'm so far in my pregnancy right now.. it's like blah!! but I. like hey let's fool around... he cold shoulders me... ohhh OK!!! then he will know how it feels..
@drodrigo239, girl I do that to my man to shit he better deal with it but oh well lol
and normally, whether I'm comfortable or not I give it up,,bcuz thats my man and don't complain about it
exactly likewise with women, it hurts me.. and makes me start to think things like am I appealing to him anymore, do I turn him on, etc... soon I mean it goes both ways