so my bf, all of a sudden didn't wanna have sex tonight( knowing we do it so often bcuz of uncomfortableness) and I let him know last te that Yea he might be tired but if he ever turned me down for sex when I was actually in the mood, or not hurting or sore.. that he would regret it so he ain't getting no a$$, for the next 6 weeks until baby comes and then 6+ weeks for recovery!!! his fault .. I guess when he learns a lesson he'll have balls of steel!!!!😞😞
I have to agree with @kellynicole , if I'm not in the mood I hope my husband is understanding enough to not make a big deal about it. There's been a few times my husband wasn't in the mood and it actually did bother me, Idk why but I didn't say anything cuz I don't want to hurt his feelings. men are way more sensitive than ppl think and they're self conscious about that stuff too.
right like come on, I'm so far in my pregnancy right now.. it's like blah!! but I. like hey let's fool around... he cold shoulders me... ohhh OK!!! then he will know how it feels..
@drodrigo239, girl I do that to my man to shit he better deal with it but oh well lol
and normally, whether I'm comfortable or not I give it up,,bcuz thats my man and don't complain about it
ugh no he's done this before, and its not cuz he's tired this time!!!
Honestly that's so petty... If he's not in the mood, he's not in the mood. Shouldn't make him feel bad for it. Cause if he did the same to you it would be douchey of him. You should treat each other with respect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So I know that In the Latino culture you’re suppose to wait the 6 weeks (quarentena) to be able to have sex again. I’m currently at 5 weeks and I cheated and had sex last night! It had been too long! Did any of u do it before the 6 weeks?
My boyfriend thinks I should hire someone he can have sex with for 6 weeks after I have my son. I don't know whether to snap on him or what?
when did everyone have sex or anything after birth? i know no one waits 6 weeks
who else had lost interest in having sex with your partner??? I am 21 weeks and 3 days.. and I don't like having sex.. I feel bad for him.. but I'm just not in the mood.. we have sex once or twice every two weeks or more.. I feel bad.. but I can't help it.. what helps is that right now he works at night so when he gets here in the morning he plays with the kids then he goes to sleep..
exactly likewise with women, it hurts me.. and makes me start to think things like am I appealing to him anymore, do I turn him on, etc... soon I mean it goes both ways