Ladies Help me out here!!!!! So heres the deal recently my relationship has gone to absolute crap.. We manage but we both know that we are struggling as a couple. My SO watches an excessive amount of porn to the point i feel disgusted with him and feel like its cheating. Im sexually unattracted to him. Ive asked that we go to therapy to rebuild our relationship from the ground up and he says he wont go unless i "put out" my argument is how do you expect me to sleep with u if we dont even have the foundation of a relationship. He says if i put out more then he will work on rebuilding our relationship!! Am i crazy or does that not make any sense??!! I feel like like alking away at this point! Any advice??
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@aminaisazasmami, @arijane316 I completely agree this is our 3rd baby together and for some reason he treats me like shit. I feel so unattractive when he watches porn idk what to do
Just the fact that he says "Put out" instead of "make love" or something more caring is disturbing. He obviously is only concerned about sex. I dated a guy who was addicted to porn a while back. He even road around with a sex bag full of porn and toys in his trunk. It's a serious addiction and he will not be able to fully commit to loving u and building your relationship unless he gets help
if he's basing your relationship on the amount of sex you have, then he has no idea what a real relationship is. if my man said some shit like that, I'd kick his ass to the curb. and as far as the porn goes, if he's watching it that much, he has a problem. I personally don't agree with porn and my man knows this. it makes me feel inadequate and unattractive. in my opinion, that's not the kind of man you need in your life. I understand that you're having a child together, but that is no reason to stay with a man who makes you feel the way you do feel
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