Ladies Help me out here!!!!! So heres the deal recently my relationship has gone to absolute crap.. We manage but we both know that we are struggling as a couple. My SO watches an excessive amount of porn to the point i feel disgusted with him and feel like its cheating. Im sexually unattracted to him. Ive asked that we go to therapy to rebuild our relationship from the ground up and he says he wont go unless i "put out" my argument is how do you expect me to sleep with u if we dont even have the foundation of a relationship. He says if i put out more then he will work on rebuilding our relationship!! Am i crazy or does that not make any sense??!! I feel like like alking away at this point! Any advice??