Day 2 of bed rest on the new schedule; Little man has been at the sitter since 7 AM and my SO went to work at 8. I'm not going to lie, I feel like a useless mom right now because I can't even care for my own 10 mth old son.
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That's the thing, i can't even hold him because he wallers all over me and in the process pushes on my stomach causing contractions. At 33wks I'm dilated 2.5 (if not more) and 90% effaced already. :'(
I totally understand I was at home with my son for over a year and when I had my daughter it was in the hospital for 3 days and then couldn't lift him for over a week so I had to have help.... it absolutely killed me.... get extra snuggles at night when he comes home, it will make you both feel better
Thank you @sarahdrew, I'm use to being SaHM and being his sole caretaker during the day.. so i feel defeated having to depend on someone else.
you are definitely NOT uselss, you are taking care of yourself and that baby... you have to do that to be able to care for him in the long run... keep your head up mama you are doing what is needed
the feelings are normal but at the same time keep your head up because you are focusing on staying healthy and bringing new baby into the world. it will be OK :)