You know. I keep seeing all these posts from people complaining about this or that about their pregnancy and how horrible it is. Yeah I get it everyone's pregnancy is different. But, I'm just think to myself, there is a lot worse coming to you if you think the little pregnancy symptoms are horrible. Just wait till you're up in your late second going on third trimester. It doesn't get any f***ing easier. Or try carrying twins. 😆 Sorry for the mean little rant but let's be real. A LOT of women have it harder than you. I get it there can be a lot of bad things that go on in your early pregnancy, hell I had a really hard time in the beginning. But really nothing compared to what I've had to deal with in my second almost third trimester! I'm sure I'll be getting a lot of sh** for this post but. The truth? That's what it's called? Right? Yeah. I don't know I just feel kind of annoyed this morning.
I know, and I'm sure you weren't trying to get under people's skin. Just saying what I've noticed and how I try to be empathetic. I actually was just reading the comments and saw how explosive it got. Definitely didn't mean to aggravate you 😳
Just being pregnant with one baby is tough, but two?! Props to you because I probably couldn't handle it.
@evococa, like I even said everyone goes through something different. I didn't neglect that. But yes you're right.
Totally understand what you're saying. But everyone's walk is different. It definitely WILL get harder. But sometimes you just gotta complain, and I've noticed a lot of women on here don't have much of an outlet for it but here. I get annoyed too, but I try to remember that. ☺️
@michellevaldez4750, it really was just a "you have no idea" post. Ha maybe simpler the better I guess.
@twinmama_navywife, I think sometimes people get the wrong idea when reading a message. I have had that happen with texts. because depending on tone of voice and other things it could sound a few different ways. it's not your fault. even if you did mean it in a different way it's still your opinion right?
@kmrandall92, alllll I was saying 😂 you have people saying oh no morning sickness. Like I understand! But then you have some people like me that have morning sickness throughout their pregnancy and have two little pains in the butts to grow! It's a lot different later on! It's nothing compared to the beginning. @michellevaldez4750 no one has to agree, but you're right. If anyone else had posted this or commented on it has their own opinion. I just happened to voice mine even if it came off the wrong way which is my fault I guess.
@mommy2be15, I agree with you! I don't remember if I said this to you or someone else but, before I knew I was having twins I was sicker than a dog everyday not being able to eat or drink! Finally when I found out I was able to get it under control. Then having the stomach flu twice from working with young kids at a school and my husband! I was in the ER twice throwing up 13+ hours each time feeling miserable. Plus major dizziness/lightheaded spells. Like I said, everyone has it differently! But really all I was saying is, like you pointed out, a lot of people have it worse.
@michellevaldez4750, really all I was saying is, some people are saying how bad some things are like simple pregnancy symptoms but they don't know the half of it yet!
@two nmama_navywife, I have 2 friends who are 5 weeks... I keep telling them the wonderful things they get to look forward to :) I'd love to be in my second trimester! Why does growing a human or two have to be such a pain!!!
and ppl don't have to agree with you but should respect your opinion anyway
I'm in the middle of my second trimester and so far it has been sooooo incredibly easier than first trimester. Yes there's hip pain and pressure and my hips and back and legs kill me at work. and there's different bad stuff. but in the beginning I was sick a few horrible times once with strep, sinus infection, ear infection, and pink eye all at once. it sucked! on top of awful rashes on my face that swelled up my eye. I thought I was gonna die! I see what you're saying, that your body Hurts worse but the beginning was torture for me. I'd much rather the pains I'm having now than when I was in bed constantly.
absolutely! you have a right to say what you feel. that's what this is for I though.
@karnamarie, , I don't think I have any entitlement at all. but your opinion. and I never say I was annoyed by anyone. I said I was in an annoying mood this morning. there is a very big difference there.
@twinmama_navywife but you are being rude, your since of entitlement and talking down to these women who annoy you is rude. that's my opinion, I'm sticking to it and that's all I have to say
@gingyrex, that's really all I was saying. I just took it a little far I guess and it sounded offensive to some. 😆
@twinmama_navywife, yea I felt bad for all the women jumping you when all you meant was that pregnancy is tough and some people really don't realize lol.
u can i think what they are trying to say is the way u put it in the comment was alittle offensive to the other moms the way u put it anyway its hormones and im sure some understand that but others might not
@gingyrex, you basically just put my post into simple terms.
I get where you're coming from, but for FTM's it is all a wave of surprises. I thought it was rough in the beginning, now I'm at 8 months and laughing at my woes from the first trimester. I get being annoyed tho, sometimes I just wanna say "Dude, chill. You've got 9 more months of this."
@mom47172, no no. I understand. but I also think people keep missing the fact that they are all saying people are allowed to have their own opinion yet I can't have mine it seems.
@michellevaldez4750, and this is my opinion. which I think a lot of people are missing. I'm not in any way being rude towards you, not at all but... This IS my opinion, no?
@cass_lynne, oh no I completely agree with you. until I knew I was having twins I had a hell of a first trimester. I obviously don't know other people's stories, like I said in my post people go through different things. but by basically shutting me down and @karnamarie you're quieting my opinion.
this app is for the moms and moms to be to share their experience with others this is my 3rd pregnancy my 1st i had a daughter and have a perfect pregnancy my 2nd i havd a blighted ovum and 3rd (now) is a boy whitch im struggling with bc i cant take my meds that i need i have anemia vitamin d deficiency hypothyroidism i also take folic acid and cant take prenatal meds bc i puke it all up on top of that i cant eat much and my son is bruising my belly the difference between my pregnancies. everyone complain or asks questions bc they dont know anyone around them that can help but the doctor and some ppl just want other moms to talk to to see if they have that same problem thats all i hope u dont take this as me being rude or mean i just trying to help if i can
I agree with you but everyone is entitled to have their opinion and that's what this place is for I guess. I just keep scrolling when I see something I don't agree with or something that annoys me.
@rainbowbaby2015, exactly. nowhere in this post have I hush anyone's opinion. this is simply my own.
@rainbowbaby2015 I don't know what you mean by " you must feel some type of way about her" means but I do know that she is annoyed obviously, and I am just shedding some light that maybe these women "complaining" maybe doing just like and venting as well. She put it up for everyone to read so anyone is free to commment. I am not annoyed or bothered by this post at all. Just voices an opossite veiw
Some people may be going through a lot in their first trimester. You don't know what everyone's story is. I've had a rough pregnancy and I'm almost finished. There are plenty of people who it's extremely hard to go through pregnancy. This app is made for women to support each other through it all.
@karnamarie, but still technically. even with saying that.. it's still my opinion, and still nowhere relating to anyone not being able to have their own. it's like if someone else were to have posted this instead of me, I can still have an opinion on something, just like you are by commenting on this.
@karnamarie, she never said they annoyed her?? She said she was in an annoyed mood today. Obviously you feel some type of way towards her because you just had to voice your own opinion on her post. If something annoys you then move on or block them right??
I completely agree momma.! I'm in my third trimester and the only bad part about it is having SPD which is seriously painful as all hell but I still don't complain about the aches and pains. I try to stay positive and enjoy every experience thru pregnancy weather is literally physically a good feeling or bad feeling. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion so speak yours.! You'd be surprised at how many people agree with you just won't post it because they don't want people to jump down their throat and then be put down. Good for you for speaking up.!
@twinmama_navywife By saying that they are annoying you and that they shouldn't be complaining you are saying they should t have an opinion and you are entitled to your opinion but I am as well and can disagree and voice why just as much as you. If it annoys you block them, just as simple as that
I never said anyone shouldn't have an opinion first off. That's basically saying that what I just posted I have no right to have an opinion.
But that is what this app is for... to rant when you are having a rough time... Some of these women don't have anyone to talk too. Your right now everyone is the same with pregnancy. But putting them down when they are emotional or telling them they shouldn't have an opinion isn't nice.
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now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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@evococa, you didn't aggravate me ha you're fine