I have to rant. My husband get up every morning before me and so does our son. But my husband is usually busy getting ready so he doesnt have time to feed our son so he has to wait until I get up which is fine. This morning my husband comes into the room and tells me our son is hungry and i respind with "he'll be alright" trying to be quiet so that we dont wake our baby girl up who is sleeping in bed with me and then he tells our son to come and ask me. And i tell him the same exact thing so he starts wailing and runs to daddy who is already late for work and so he just caves and makes our son a bowl of cereal. 1st of all I am already having problems getting our son to listen to be so to over rule what i just said right infront of him... yeah that shows what mommy says doesnt go. 2nd HE wasnt up with the baby every time she needed to eat and HE was up for an hour while I pumped because I started to get engorged last night. HE slept perfectly through the night and here i am exhausted but now i have to stay up because our son is eating and he cant get out of his seat by himself. This is bs.