if you don't know by 18 - 22 weeks there's a problem

@rachelirene, really? this is my second and Ive never got an ultra sound that many times or that fast after my first appointment. after your first appointment its usually 4 weeks after at least that's how it's been for me .. but idk. but I agree me finding out my Gender so late makes me upset but I'm also just thankful I've made it this far in my pregnancy :) the only ultrasound I've had was to make sure baby wasnt in my fallopian tube. I found out the gender of my son at 31/2 months and it was at the hospital by accident. if I would have waited for my OB I would have found out late too around 5 51/2 months but it's also because the OB I was seeing didn't have the 3D ultrasounds and they sent us to a total different office for them to be done I know for sure I'll find out March 18 with this one thankgod because they have the 3d 4d ultrasounds their so thank god! I tried to get them to move my ultrasound date sooner but they wouldn't but I'm not worried about it , I'm happy with my new OBGYNs! the office has several doctors and they all look at your charts and if one Dr feels a test needs to be ran they'll discuss it with us even if the first doctor didn't see a need for it so I feel it works great for me plus they coincide with the high risk specialist so they both work together on my pregnancy

yeah but I'm saying is they should have told you at your first appointment or made an ultrasound one that is ridiculous finding at 25-26 weeks. and believe me I know all about OB I switched and have an appointment and then two weeks later I had a ultrasound appointment with the ultrasound tech. Next week I have one with the doctor again!

@rachelirene, lol I just had my first Drs appointment with my new Dr todqy cause I switched OBs couldn't stand mine anymore lol but I've literally been contemplating just going to the ER for tummy pain and having an ultrasound done to see if they can see ahaha I know that's bad lol but I'm getting really impatient

then go to a different place

@rachelirene, nopee gotta wait until March 18 :(

with my first they knew by 3 1/2 months!! it sucks! :(

they should have definitely told you by now because you're way over 20 weeks

@teamblue040416., I have an appt on Tuesday and another one in March so hopefully this one on Tuesday and not the one In March lol and really? u think so? :/ this pregnancy is completely different than my first which was a boy so I totally thought this one would be a girl lol

it's a boy ... watch lol :) when do you find out?

@teamblue040416., I still dont know :/

boy?