your okay huh I understand y'all are worried

I am not trying to upset you, but you did say you need her to come now and that she is getting too big 😪 I only commented because I was trying to help and this is literally making me cry thinking about it. Babies born at 30wks are so tiny, and that is dangerous. Someone just posted a picture of their son born at 29 weeks and I'm crying. I just wouldn't want that for anyone. I am sorry though. But with what you said, and seeing so many pictures and stories of preemie babies, I don't know how you can blame me for commenting.

I am not trying to jump on you or anything, but just reading all your other posts it seems as if that is what you're trying to do. If your doctor thinks it is best to induce for medical reasons later on, then I'm sure he knows what he is talking about. I was just trying to give you some knowledge on the subject if you did not know. We are all uncomfortable, and I have also gained a lot of weight. But your baby is only about 3lbs right now and will need a lot of help surviving outside of your womb. If anything you should wait seven more weeks before trying or thinking about anything like that. I am not trying to judge you or upset you. I was truly just trying to help. I hope everything gets better for you...

I'm not trying to have her now it was just a question for just in case it comes down to that god I feel like I am getting jumped all over for asking a question I rather not take the meds the doctor is gonna give for inducing so I am asking I'm not trying to have her a 30 weeks I am happy with my due date and hope she stays three days after her due date so she can come on my moms birthday

Did he then suggest you eat differently or something then? Because I can guarantee he did not suggest that you try to induce yourself too early 😥 this is really way too early. I have gained a LOT of weight, and FAST! But my doctor never suggests that the baby needs to come early, that I need a csection, or that I won't be able to handle giving vaginal birth to my son. Him saying that you are gaining weight too fast is a suggestion to change your diet, but not to induce this early. It would be better to have a csection than to have your baby 10wks early. Nobody WANTS to have a csection, but if your baby is born right now, she will for sure spend at least a month or two in the NICU on lots of machines. They will have to do lots of things to help your baby progress and gain weight and things which she could have naturally done inside your body. It is a very scary thing.

my doctor said I am gaining too much weight too fast in 6weeks I have gained 17lbs he said he was way to much

Your previous post says you weigh 154lbs. I weighed 185lbs before pregnancy, and am weighing 220lbs currently at 27 weeks. My doctor has not said a WORD about my weight gain, and also nothing about my son being too big or too small. Your baby is for sure not big enough for you to try to induce this early.

I think maybe you should ask your doctor more about this, because maybe you are not understanding what they are saying. I have gained almost 40lbs already, and my doctor has not said anything about my weight gain or about having to have a csection. Your baby is probably around 3lbs right now. That is NOT a big baby... like I said I was 10lbs 12oz and my mom had me vaginally. Pregnancy is not a comfortable thing but your baby can't possibly be big enough that you need to give birth this early.

I gained 60 and 80 pounds with my 2 previous pregnancies and my biggest baby was my daughter at 8pounds and 2 oz and I had them both vaginally at 38 weeks they are very healthy 8 and 6 year Olds now I can assure u it will fine plus would you seriously risk your child's health/life to not have the c section you nay or may not have to have?!?

well my doctor told me IMA end up having to have a c-section if she and me keeps gaining weight like we have been

30 weeks isn't even close to time. Be patient forcing her out is so dangerous and not worth it. Everyone is uncomfortable but it's worth it to have a healthy baby when the time comes!

I was just like you with my last pregnancy I couldn't take being pregnant any second later Then at 32 weeks I ended up in the hospital with contractions && ended up having my little girl she spent a whole month in the hospital and boyyyyyy did I hate that , its not a good feeling . I would of rather tuffed out being pregnant

And this is just a personal experience but my mom is very short and tiny, I was born vaginally at 10lbs 12oz! Your baby is not too big for you to have, unless your doctor is worried about that. And if your doctor didn't think you could handle it, they would schedule a csection or early delivery for you. Nobody ever said that pregnancy was a comfortable thing, and you CAN do it!! I believe in you. Your baby is probably only 3lbs at this point. You said your doctor called you fat or something, I have gained 35lbs already at 27 weeks, and my son is only 2lbs right now. I would be so so scared for him to come early. He gives me much pain, much discomfort... but it is all in the process, and it is not forever. Let your baby grow. It may not seem like it but she has SO much more growing to do in these last nine weeks. Nobody should wish for their baby to come early 😞

lol I found it and changed it I'm sorry for the confusion

where does it say 39

why does your profile say 30 weeks and so does a post you posted say 30 weeks but then you also put 39 weeks....

Baby would definitely be in the NICU for possibly MONTHS if coming this early. You need to hang in there girl, if not for yourself, do it for your daughter. You shouldn't be trying to do anything to induce until maaaybe 37 weeks, if your doctor allows. I won't be doing that until I have already hit my due date. Your baby has lots and lots of growing to do still. At this point all your babies organs have developed, but has so much more brain development to do and also weight to put on... please don't try to do anything to put yourself into labor. Could be very dangerous to your baby 😞

her profile says 39 in the bio ao im not really sure what she is @their.bomb.ass.mom

it's way to early to be trying to force her out she would and could end up in the NICU.

If you're 30 weeks, you don't need to do anything to make your baby come out now.

30 weeks is way too early to be trying to induce! It may be uncomfortable, but please let that baby growwww!