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Is it a bad idea that I don't want any alcohol of any kind at my baby shower next week? Everyone keeps telling me that a…

Is it a bad idea that I don't want any alcohol of any kind at my baby shower next week? Everyone keeps telling me that a party without alcohol isn't a party. Ugh it's a damn baby shower & it's my choice

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I don't think people usually do have alcohol at a baby shower so ur good either way !

adotlindley

Amari

Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

it is most definitely your choice so if you say no they must respect that

missing201user

missing201user

that would be weird alcohol at a baby shower

almanicolee

Alma

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Honestly every baby shower I've been to had alcohol. My SO family think is necessary & I honestly don't want no rude or drunk people or any fighting @livd15 @adotlindley @jadestarlight

deleted-user

deleted-user

oh really ?? I don't think iv ever been to one w alcohol. and I love alcohol lol and ya I don't blame u at all

adotlindley

Amari

Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

that's understandable I say stand your ground....if they're really there to celebrate your baby's life they'll be there without the alcohol just my opinion tho

almanicolee

Alma

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Yes I think every Hispanic that has a baby shower has to have alcohol lol @livd15, I am & plus I don't have that type of money to be buying alcohol for more than 100 guest, not happening & I agree with you 100% they need to be there for the baby @adotlindley

babyg407

Shannon

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Most of the baby showers I've been to have wine but if you have people that go overboard it's understandable not to have anything.

kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly

I didn't know it, but my parents brought beer and wine to mine. =\

emilyg

Emily Gilman

My SO's family is Puerto Rican & they are all planning on drinking at our shower. His dad is a dj & is setting up all his equipment. I'm so nervous about it, our families couldn't be more different. They make it more of an actual party, celebrating the baby! I just made him promise that the music & drinking will wait until after my family leaves.

desi720

Desaray

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@almanicolee, I know how you feel my family wants to have alcohol too but the last shower we went to they served alcohol and people don't know how to act

ms.jones

Tiffany

Мама двоих (6 лет, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

No because I'm having two showers . One with my family and one with his . The one with my family will have no alcohol and the one with his will . And for that reason I'm really not looking forward to attending the shower with his family . I don't think the shower should have things that the mom to be can't participate in...@almanicolee

almanicolee

Alma

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I wouldn't mind wine but they want beers @babyg407, they even offered to buy me the alcohol 😏 @kimberlyyyy, that's what I was saying but my family like alcohol too but not like his fam I'm Dominican & he's Honduran so it's like they love alcohol @emilyg, his family is not crazy but his friends are which is worst. My family kind of respect my decision but they would love alcohol too & they really don't know how to act @desi720,

almanicolee

Alma

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I don't blame you but knowing how his family is there will be alcohol even if I don't want to @ms.jones

ms.jones

Tiffany

Мама двоих (6 лет, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

Same here @almanicolee

So I just found out I'm pregnant with my second baby on Thursday and I told my mom on Friday after my fiance told his…

So I just found out I'm pregnant with my second baby on Thursday and I told my mom on Friday after my fiance told his mom and dad and today I was talking with my mom and if baby is a boy I'm not going to have a baby shower but if it's a girl it's going to be a small baby shower and my mom told me that I can't have another baby shower that it's now how it works. So do I have a shower or not? Any advice?