I'm having a very hard time being a step mom right now... I'm not sure how to deal with things right now and I'm becoming emotional about it and I'm not sure how to tell my SO how I'm feeling because I don't want him to think I don't love his son. it's just that I've wanted my own child for almost 8 years (since my first marriage) and I've been told that it was impossible... now that it's happening IDK if I have enough love to give... IDK if I'm just feeling this way because I'm pregnant or if it's gonna remain after I give birth but I need to talk I just don't know who to talk to since my mom is no longer with us... :(
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In my opinion I think it is just you being pregnant because I felt like that but the difference is I have a daughter and I'm pregnant now and I'm like how I'm going to love both of them? It's just feelings we go through but you will have enough love for the both of them. You don't have to worry about that. Our hearts are big enough to love more than one person.
@daniellethomson, I'll try. I just kinda wanna get it off my chest while I'm still pregnant so he can help me feel better and help me be better about it so after I give birth I'll be at l easier and a little closer to his son too. I feel myself distancing myself from his son right now especially because it's getting closer to the time and his son is becoming brattier
a good way to give equal attention is to involve the son with the baby in everything you possibly can.
Just breathe... I kind of get how you feel. I dont know if Ill have enough time for my pup, who is very attached, and kind of my first baby. When the baby comes, just sit with the baby and his son, and grt him involved, have him be the big brother he probably wants to be let him show the baby his toys and his favorite shows even if the baby doesnt know what hes doing lol.
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@ladybri, thanks... I just hate feeling like this and I feel guilty for thinking like that ya know