When you have all the support from your SO family and are so happy for you ! But then you have your family who are so negative and tell you all the bad things about having a baby at 20 !! :( a lot of pressure honestly

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kaimana9906

@canelabxchula1, God is great beautiful story love it

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canelabxchula1

i had my first child at 17 and was the most beautiful important thing that happen in my life my daughter is 7yrs old today and i will never change that my mom told me to get out of the house and i knew that was gonna hapoen went i find out i were expecting.... but guess what that was the better part my mom did that time bc i teach my self how to survive along and did everything for her n me ... now im 25 expecting mi last child #3 and i learn how to became independent i was kind of lucky allways my baby father was around / together and today we marry with or last child .... went i was 17 i allways think my mom was the worst person bc she throu me out today i know that was the best she can did for me .... because she gave me responsable to me and my husband ... maybe if i was living with her my husband will never try to find jobs and do what he was supposed to like alot mother and father after having a baby they just left baby with gramma and be clupping and party ... sorry for my english im not that well written english lol

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kaimana9906

@mzdiva916, @sagwaenglish absolute right thank you

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mzdiva916
Kehalilah·Мама подростка

To me 20 is one of the good ages to get pregnant or start planning to have a baby. At age 20 most already have a plan of what they want to do with their lives and who they want to be with if they are not married yet. Basically what I'm saying is if you have your priorities in order(which I know you do) then do you. If having a baby is what you want then do that. No one in your family should have a problem.

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kaimana9906

@scc2413, @youluvkay thanks ladies

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Sydney·В ожидании первенца

I was 20 when we found out and it's been the same for me except it was my family that was more supportive and his not so much until recently. His grandma is the devil so she always has something to say about everything and I tend to just tune her out every time she talks. They'll come around to it though! It is gunna be hard but you'll be okay.

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youluvkay
Kayla Khadu·В ожидании первенца

Yea they will come around hopefully if not I know it sucks but just remove that negativity out your life and enjoy the positive and people who are there for you and enjoy your pregnancy

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kaimana9906

@youluvkay, and that's all I really want trust i kno it's going to be hard as hell but I'm ready for it knowing I have help behind me

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Kayla Khadu·В ожидании первенца

They probably feel like they are helping you because it is hard but what they don't get is there's ways of going about it and plus just having the support from them is what they should be doing

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