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mahalasmama
Brittany

so this is a long story but I need some support...

Okay so I need to vent here for a minute.

Almost 2 months ago my boyfriends dad decided to come here from Utah and asked to stay with us (his dad was never in his life and they hadn't seen each other in 15 years) so of course we said yes because my boyfriend wanted a chance to know his father. He made it seem like he was coming for a visit, but once he got here he informed us he was moving here...he came with nothing but two suitcases and barely any money, no job and no living arrangements. So now almost 2 months later and he's still staying with us when he originally told us it would be a couple days/a week tops. In the beginning it was fine, he was respectful and helped out, but now he's gotten so comfortable he eats and drinks our groceries, leaves lights on, leaves the toilet seat up, leaves garbage all around and doesn't do any housework anymore... He has a job and helps with rent but he wastes money on the dumbest stuff and is an alcoholic who gets drunk every single night...he isn't trying to save money to get his own place at all...and I'm 32 weeks pregnant. And now im starting to get really sad and stressed out because i want to be able to have alone time with my boyfriend before we can't have alone time for the next 18 years... I'm so stressed out and I don't know what to do, it makes me want to cry...its not like we can or would kick him out on the streets but he's making no effort to find a place of his own...this really freaking sucks and I don't know what to do!

We also found out he only moved here because he was addicted to meth in Utah...the whole situation just isn't fair...

19.02.2016
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transformermom
Dawn Weiss Craig Green·Мама троих детей

He needs a rehab place to live and get himself togethe

08.08.2016 Нравится Ответить
motherof2taurusboys
Nikita·Мама двоих (9 лет, 14 лет)

:( that's not fair to you two, hopefully you guys find a solution

19.02.2016 Нравится Ответить
mahalasmama

hes been paying us like 100 a week... I want to do that but we've been telling him all along he doesn't have to pay us anything he just needs to save and get a place of his own because we need our space :( @motherof2taurusboys

19.02.2016 Нравится Ответить
motherof2taurusboys
Nikita·Мама двоих (9 лет, 14 лет)

Raise his rent save for home and help him get a place.. So if he pays 700 make him pay 950 but save the extra amount for him to get out

19.02.2016 Нравится Ответить
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