The first year of marriage is the hardest. It's where you guys learn to become a team instead of being two individuals. You're still your own person of course but marriage is a teamwork thing through and through. I wouldn't be so quick to jump to divorce though. Couples counseling is really helpful. My husband and I have gone twice when things have gotten tough between us. Maybe it's something you guys can do together.

I mean really it just depends on how you look at it. Yes, you can get better at communication and try to work it out. But how many times are you willing to try to work it out. I think to a degree a relationship is hard, and of course no relationships are perfect. But if you're to the point of it's happening all day, every day and arguing over petty things, it isn't a healthy relationship anymore. So many couples try to keep it together to say they didn't give up, but in reality, sometimes things just don't work out.

@emeliaday, I agree

@mrshamilton830, my husband did and said the same thing and we haven't been married for a year yet. I refuse to let him leave because I knew their was something wrong and he was frustrated. Men's don't like telling us women what they feel because it make them feel somewhat weak and very less macho. We argue a lot even on the day we found out we was pregnant but that positive on the stick make us stop and realized that we loved each other so much that we created a life :) we learned to trust, forgive and too listen to each other about whatever was going on mentally, emotionally and physically. We sat down and prayed. It can work out for you if you truly meant every words you said when you both took that vow. Marriage is hard it requires teamwork. It take two people to fix what wrong in the marriage. Be strong and try to talk to him again like I said there is something else that bothering him and he has no way of explaining it too you but being frustrated

@littlemissrainesmommy, communication only works if both parties are able to communicate he rather walk away, he always does this, and after so many times of me being the bigger person, I'm getting tired of the same thing

@mrshamilton830, oh noooo. time to cut the umbilical cord and let the nuts drop. I'm just sayin thou. nothing irritates me more than a grown ass man acting like that.

Sounds more like you guys need to learn to actually communicate and grow up.... Relationships dont work if you're willing to give up just like that.

Maybe some time apart can help you both figure out what you want. Anyone who threatens to leave divorce over something that minor has bigger issues at play. IMO. You should be decreasing stress not adding more!

@nicemmcha2015, I agree we have only been married 5 months and he tells his mom all of our business and always packs his stuff and runs back home to mama he needs to learn to communicate and take his mom boob out his mouth and be a man

dont beg him just give it time and see what happens

I agree with @nicemmcha2015

thats not a reason to end your marriage just pray amd let god handle it follow his foot steps hell show you the right way

@mrshamilton830, tell him don't let the door hit him where the good lord split him on his way out. if you beg and plead him not to when he threatens it he will keep using that to just get to you. once he realizes that crap doesn't work anymore then maybe he will stop acting like like a child.

@deafmama16, I'm not forcing anyone to stay where they don't want to be, EVERY time we argue he always bring up divorce or he's leaving and it gets old

Just like that? If you two really love each other no matter what pettiness you both go through or what struggle y'all would keep fighting. Don't give up try to talk to him it's more than you looking at cars without him @mrshamilton830