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Lynzee
Lynzee
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)

So I've been stressing more than I should lately. I have a C-Section scheduled for March 15th. That is 4 days before my…

So I've been stressing more than I should lately. I have a C-Section scheduled for March 15th. That is 4 days before my due date. This is my second baby. I haven't been through a planned section before, and I'm just worried that I can't keep her in that long. My last pregnancy ended in an unplanned C-Section. Which means she tried to come on her own. What if this baby tries to come earlier than planned? We planned this way so that it would work around my parents vacation so they could watch our 3yr old. They will be gone for a week for their 25th wedding anniversary. What if she tries to come while they are gone? And even if she doesn't try to come earlier than planned I've only had one C-Section. Idk how recovery will be after a repeat one. My husband has no clue I worry bout all of this and I don't want him to. I guess I'm just scared. It's getting so close and I'm worried. With things she will need we're set so that is at least one thing not to worry bout but that is just something small to not worry bout. My worries are bigger and are stressing me out and scaring me. Things rarely go as planned for me and I don't want this to be something that doesn't go as planned. Plus I have to worry bout maternity leave. I'm a part time worker who barely gets any hrs. Idk what I'm gonna do. I feel like I'm gonna break.

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lysmith

Lynzee

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)

With my husband he will be at work till the day she is born then is taking 2 weeks off. If she comes early all he has to do is call them or email them bout it and they will tell him "See u in 2 weeks" They are rly cool bout it since almost everyone that works there is a parent themselves.

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stephanie

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)

we are kinda in the same fix my planed c-section is March 17th my mom is taking the 16th-19th off and my hubby is taking the 17th-21st off and I'm having a lot of pains and I get more and more everyday.. my first was an emergency c-section at 41weeks after being induced at 40weeks6days...

Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And…

Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?