Sydnee
sydnee
Sydnee·Мама троих детей

I need some advice....I miscarried a few weeks ago and my boyfriend and I talked about it and we agreed to wait until we moved and saved up some more money, I agreed.....but now I really don't want to wait losing this baby has really taken its toll on me and I want to try again....should I talk to him about it or should I stick with the original plan and just wait?

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mamatarona

I had a miscarriage back in 2005 and got pregnant soon after . She was born premature. I think getting pregnant right after was the reason why .

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jltaylor86

Make sure you're honest with him about your feelings but be willing to compromise about waiting of that's what you both decide. It's important for him to know how you're feeling none the less. So sorry for your loss ❤

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hernandezmommy
Sariena·Мама сына-младенца

I think you should at least talk about it. he lost a child too and could be feeling different now... it's definitely something you guys need to openly discuss you guys are both going through something nobody bit each other can understand im sorry for your loss good luck to you and keep faith <3

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ladybugworkin
Jazmine Gomez·Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

I've experienced 3 miscarriages and each time I went back immediately. .. I couldn't wait it was like torture to me waiting ! loat my first baby at 9 weeks i went back to trying the first time I didn't get pregnant till 3/4 months later then lost that baby, tried again right after that loss and got pregnant 2 weeks later that was my 1st successful pregnancy.... then we started trying again once my son was 3 and I got pregnant lost that baby, tried immediately and same thing happened and got pregnant 2 weeks later and that was my second successful pregnancy she's now 13 months and I'm pregnant again with twins .... believe me... I was told to wait but I didn't... every woman is different make sure your body is healed. i always stooped bleeding about 1 week after loss so thats when i started again. We said the same thing about waiting for the money situation but we went with the flow anyways ... it's up to you

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sydnee
Sydnee·Мама троих детей

I agree on waiting cuz we have a lot going on and we're broke I'm just so lost @kimberlyyyy

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kimberly_preemie-mom
Kimberly ·Мама двоих (младенец)

I would say wait. Your body needs time to regulate itself after the MC. I got pregnant 3 cycles after my miscarriage... The first 2 cycles we tried and it was painful when we got negatives, then we stopped trying and I got pregnant again, but I don't think my body was ready because I delivered prematurely. I think it's just better to wait until you have fully grieved your loss and have let your body get back to "normal"

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