My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I do that.. I’m like 🤷🏽 ♀ it wasn’t right........ Our other friends are saying that he’s giving her a hard time and that he sleeping on the couch, not eating her food and won’t talk to her.. she’s not talking to me (of course) & I now feel like we could have handled it in a different manner ... idk seeing a grown man cry like he did was just heart breaking!
My friend just told me she wants to have an abortion and I'm pissed off I literally can't even be around her right now
Sariena·
Мама сына-младенца
that's ridiculous -.- she's acting like she miscarried not like she chose to abort the baby -.-
“””””·
I don't think you said anything bad! 😒 I got an abortion before this pregnancy and heard comments like this before. I never got offended. The only time I had my feelings hurt was when I had a miscarriage and would hear that it was the best thing to happen to me.
Mrs.RJ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I wouldn't invite her butt. Skip them. I would only 'deal' with them when they were around. I wouldn't go out of my way. And I would tell her boyfriend or whoever he is that you are grown and don't have to watch your tongue when dealing with grown people. The sun don't rise and set around her smh. Talk freely she is the one that have to deal with her choices not you.
Desari Serralles·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (28 нед.)
I agree with @sexxymama83 u didn't make her get one she chose to and she will have to deal with that herself
Shilissa·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 7 лет)
Ya that was her choice? She has no right to get upset if that was her own choice. And u didn't say anything bad, she just took it wrong. Maybe she will have another baby in the future and will realize u were right. That shouldn't have been offensive to her at all and ur man shouldn't be mad at u either. Just ignore her and don't involve her in anything
Bree·
I agree with you all @hernandezmommy @t142 @sexxymama83 @dezy4serralles .. it's just hard because they are really good to my boyfriend & the guy is one of his best friends.. I just put up with it for him.. & I have nothing bad to say about what they did.. my opinions on abortion are different from theirs.. but ultimately the choice was there's & they will have to deal with the consequences of what they did.. I don't, I don't push my opinions on them but when they suggest it to us that it is a good option it really pissed me off.. Sure, he owns a house & stuff but his fiance is so depressed she doesn't talk to anyone & doesn't even want to be intimate with him.. I feel like I'm walking on egg shells trying to keep the peace.. I'm not allowed to be over there unless he's home.. they even made a big deal about me being there for a hour by myself while I decorated his room for the Valentine's Day.. I'm just at a lost for words & I don't know how to go about everything.. this is the the tip of the ice berg.. they obviously aren't happy for us & have nothing nice or positive to say about our baby girl..
Heather O·
Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
I don't think there was anything wrong with what you said, but his friend shouldn't be saying those things about you guys keeping your child. They seem like they're upset they got an abortion. Sorry you decided to keep your baby and raise it. Your stability is none of his business, just yours and your man's.