I'm going to rant for a moment.. So the boyfriends friends fiance is mad at me & avoids me at all costs.. a couple of years ago they got a abortion & she was talking to me about how she's getting some of my symptoms from me being pregnant because he lives with them right now & I'm always over there.. well with me not even thinking about the abortion I told her just wait till she's pregnant the symptoms will be 10× more extreme.. & my boyfriends friend was talking to me yesterday saying I can't say those things.. & that I'm affecting her way bad & that she's mad at me.. how is that my fault? I'm struggling with them really bad.. he tried suggesting that we got a abortion at first & just says were stupid all the time because we're not as stable as we should be.. it took everything I had to bite my tongue.. we love our little girl in my belly & we can't wait for her to get here.. whether she was planned or not.. but how do I go about dealing with her or his friend?? I am nervous to even say anything around her or invite her to our baby shower?? Ahhhhh.. advice!!
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I agree with you all @hernandezmommy @t142 @sexxymama83 @dezy4serralles .. it's just hard because they are really good to my boyfriend & the guy is one of his best friends.. I just put up with it for him.. & I have nothing bad to say about what they did.. my opinions on abortion are different from theirs.. but ultimately the choice was there's & they will have to deal with the consequences of what they did.. I don't, I don't push my opinions on them but when they suggest it to us that it is a good option it really pissed me off.. Sure, he owns a house & stuff but his fiance is so depressed she doesn't talk to anyone & doesn't even want to be intimate with him.. I feel like I'm walking on egg shells trying to keep the peace.. I'm not allowed to be over there unless he's home.. they even made a big deal about me being there for a hour by myself while I decorated his room for the Valentine's Day.. I'm just at a lost for words & I don't know how to go about everything.. this is the the tip of the ice berg.. they obviously aren't happy for us & have nothing nice or positive to say about our baby girl..
Ya that was her choice? She has no right to get upset if that was her own choice. And u didn't say anything bad, she just took it wrong. Maybe she will have another baby in the future and will realize u were right. That shouldn't have been offensive to her at all and ur man shouldn't be mad at u either. Just ignore her and don't involve her in anything
I agree with @sexxymama83 u didn't make her get one she chose to and she will have to deal with that herself
I wouldn't invite her butt. Skip them. I would only 'deal' with them when they were around. I wouldn't go out of my way. And I would tell her boyfriend or whoever he is that you are grown and don't have to watch your tongue when dealing with grown people. The sun don't rise and set around her smh. Talk freely she is the one that have to deal with her choices not you.
I don't think you said anything bad! 😒 I got an abortion before this pregnancy and heard comments like this before. I never got offended. The only time I had my feelings hurt was when I had a miscarriage and would hear that it was the best thing to happen to me.
that's ridiculous -.- she's acting like she miscarried not like she chose to abort the baby -.-
My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
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I don't think there was anything wrong with what you said, but his friend shouldn't be saying those things about you guys keeping your child. They seem like they're upset they got an abortion. Sorry you decided to keep your baby and raise it. Your stability is none of his business, just yours and your man's.